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About 3 years ago I moved down to San Diego for school.

When I first got to SD I was a little lonely so I had my roommates’ gf hook me up with one of her friends. She was average looking but she had a great personality so I went out with her knowing it was just a fling. We went out for about a year and a half and she really grew on me. We broke up all of a sudden and its been almost 2 years now. She really wanted to stay friends and she tried her best to stay in touch and hang out but I wasn’t having any of it because I was hurt at the time. I don’t get it, its been 2 years and I have dated other girls but I always find myself thinking about her. Sometimes when I am sitting in my room at my desk or if I am laying in bed I find myself wondering how she is doing and what she is up to. I really hate to admit this but I think I miss her or I am hoping that its the concept of having a gf around that I miss again. Sorry I’m not really asking for help but just wanted to get this off my chest. Thanks for listening.

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kaoticsnow offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 27 minutes after post)

Its not easy, I experienced a similar situation with an ex of mine, I’ll admit I’m still not over her and I prolly never will be. It took me 3-4 years before I could start talking to her again, and now were pretty good friends, am I over her nope. although she dose not know that that’s a story for another post.

I’m just saying its not easy but remember, Time heals all wounds.

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