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Hey all, so at 5 am this morning I said good bye to my boyfriend at the airport.

He is leaving to Prague for 3 days with his brother. Originally we were going to go to Istanbul together for 5 days but plans changed and I could not come so he shorten the trip to 3 days to Prague with his brother instead. He is the most amazing guy I have ever been with in my life and he treats me oh so wonderfully. I didn’t realize how much I love him until he’s gone. I know I know its only going to be 3 days..but now it is only 5pm..exactly 12 hours since we said good bye and I am feeling so empty and incomplete. We have never even spent one night apart in our 8 months together and I know this will help our relationship and he will miss me too. I am missing him like crazy, it’s so hard to concentrate on anything else..I find myself counting the hours til he comes back to me and its so long =(
Also he called me and such before the plane took off and now he is not able to call anymore from his cell phone in Prague =/ since it’s 3 days I am just going to wait patiently until he gets back, I don’t want to call him I do wish for him to have fun.. Please will you give me some advice to pass time? I am also sorry for this long question, it feels so good to express my feelings out, I don’t have friends whatsoever here in Spain..I made the move here to be with him.. Thank you so much for your time..x0×0

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SoulRising offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (4 minutes after post)

You don’t sound very patient to me:). You should get busy doing something, anything. Allow him to miss you. Don’t call him too often. And make sure you have a life outside of your relationship with him, because this will make for a much happier/healthier relationship over time:).

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

that post made me miss being in love lol.. ur right that this will help your relationship! “Absence makes the heart grow fonder”..that is why uve realized u love him as much as you do. im getting the impression this is also a new love and it must be hard to spend time away during the “butterfly” stage when u cant get enough of eachother. Well hun my only advice to you would be spend so,e time with friends and family.. & plan things to do when you get back!! once the butterfly stage is over you both are going to require more time for urselves so i would suggest doing things you woulndt normally do with him (pamper urself, see chick flicks etc.) Do you for the next 3 days. Goodluck :) and congrats on finding love..never take it for granted.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (45 minutes after post)

i get this way every time my b/f goes away too… i kno wit is extreamly hard to consentrate on this so just try to get into your old hobbies again. ya know reading gardening and things of that sort… i recommed stephaine meyers book.

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1 year, 2 months ago (46 minutes after post)

I know what you mean, I miss my girlfriend so much when I’m away from her. It’s hard to pass time because she is always on my mind.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

You’re in Spain! That’s awesome! Go outside girl and explore your surroundings..3 days all to yourself and in a new place…Go for a nice long walk on the avenida and
observe the life that surrounds you…3 days away from your baby isn’t so bad, come on…Maybe, try turning your sadness into something creative like writing him a song, poem or painting or drawing him a picture…He’ll be back before you know it…Be happy with yourself, in your new place, knowing that you are loved even though the guy is away for a little bit…Hasta luego chica! :0)

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 31 minutes after post)

That is an awesome idea Thanks alot! Also, I know that he cant call me from Prague, but he did text me when he got there to let me know that he arrived safe. But he hasnt text me since…I know that it is just 3 days and I think its all in my head, I am just feeling a bit insecure. I hope he is missing me as much as I am missing him.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 32 minutes after post)

he is

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Hey all, so at 5 am this morning I said good bye to my boyfriend at the airport. He is leaving to Prague for 3 days with his brother. Originally we were going to go to Istanbul together for 5 days but plans changed and I could not come so he shorten the trip to 3 days to Prague with his brother instead. He is the most amazing guy I have ever been with in my life and he treats me oh so wonderfully. I didn’t realize how much I love him until he’s gone. I know I know its only going to be 3 days..but now it is only 5pm..exactly 12 hours since we said good bye and I am feeling so empty and incomplete. We have never even spent one night apart in our 8 months together and I know this will help our relationship and he will miss me too. I am missing him like crazy, it’s so hard to concentrate on anything else..I find myself counting the hours til he comes back to me and its so long =(
Also he called me and such before the plane took off and now he is not able to call anymore from his cell phone in Prague =/ since it’s 3 days I am just going to wait patiently until he gets back, I don’t want to call him I do wish for him to have fun.. Please will you give me some advice to pass time? I am also sorry for this long long question, it feels so good to express my feelings out, I don’t have friends whatsoever here in Spain..I am an American and I moved here to be with him.. Thank you so much for your time..x0×0

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (4 hours, 3 minutes after post)

Yay I just got another text message from him saying that he loves me and thinking of me and that he is finishing dinner and then going to sleep.. I feel soo much better after receiving this! I am so happy right now, I cant wait until I am in his arms again. Thanks so much everyone for your words.

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1 year, 2 months ago (5 hours, 2 minutes after post)

yay!

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