Love help: in general why do we let our emotions get the best of us? - Help.com

Did you have good times during those 5 yrs?

Move forward. i you had a great few years then in another few months you will have no regrets and only the best memories, I can guarantee it. But if it really is over then you have to stop waiting for her and try to move forward.

Good luck

insanevictor wrote:
yeah i realy did… she was u can say my ‘first love’ we had out issues now and again, but i miss thos days more than anything and always wish i can go back to when we first started going out.. im 21 now and shes 20. we started dating when we were 15/16 in high skool..

Then it wasn’t a waste.

Not a waste.Just experiences you’ll take to your next relationship. Hoping you find that certain someone who will appreciate you for all your good qualities.Apparently she didn’t… Good luck to you :D

Dude, just move on my friend. Harsh as it may be, that part of your life is over. I bet you learnt alot, but now perhaps you can grow. Hurts like c**p but happens to us all. Makes us men!

well if ya dont enjuot the partys and what not then you really should mov eon

Yes try your best to move on, that is the only thing you can do. My “first love” ended up cheating on me after 4 years and it hurt more than anything I have ever experienced. It sucks but thats life… Now I am with the love of my life and he is everything I can ever hope for. I know for a fact that he will love me and take better care of my heart. Your dream girl is out there, and for you to meet her you need to let go of the past. I lost 4 years too but I do not think it was a waste, it made me stronger and made me who I am today =)

something i have learnt is to try and bring something positive from all situations, even if its just one things, if you can learn something from what happpened it makes you feel much better as it seems as its not all been for nothing, for instance my gf of 10 months ran off with my best friend who then attacked me, but from this i have learn’t not to rush into things so much, considering i met her and went out with her on the same day. Its all very well everyone saying move on, and yes that is what is needed but don’t rush moving on, time is the greatest healer of them all and sometimes you need time to help.