Freelance Supergirl changed the tags on this post: they were "All That, Finally, depression, sad, loss" 3 months, 2 weeks ago.
Hello there, how are you feeling now?
Would you like to give us a background pls?
It has been a very difficult 2 years, however it is finally catching up to me. I have keep very busy and have always been one step ahead of thoes emotions, but they are at my feet. I am tired of running away from them, I think it is time to let them have there way. I am worried about letting myself feel all that is comming, they may be to much for one person
You need some “down time.” You say, “OK, problems, you’re being put on hold for 72 hours. I’m going to rest, I’m going to do something I enjoy, and I’m going to look for solutions. But I am NOT going to worry or fret. So you’re going to just sit back and simmer while I get back in touch with life.”
See a movie. Talk to a friend. Go to church. Pray to God. And don’t let problems get you down . . . let me tell you something: ALL of us have been completely failed by our government and business leaders, and THEY are the ones who should feel bad . . . YOU and I didn’t have anything to do with it!
So, relax. Take a breather. You’re gonna be OK!
:( you are not alone. Things are just too hard to bear despite letting them slip away. But they will come and hunt us every now and then. Do you believe you need to cure the root of your fears? or going back to that same spot where you were for the past 2 years and see how those years have made you stronger?
They would not feel nice, but if you really go through it, it has made you become better. There are no absolute answer as to why they happened for life goes beyond one’s understanding. And what we need to do is to take those pain with us BUT realize the importance of moving on.
I’m talking vague here as i am also struggling myself.
But i wish you well. I hope by telling you that you are not alone helps even a little.
chev.jame wrote:
You need some “down time.” You say, “OK, problems, you’re being put on hold for 72 hours. I’m going to rest, I’m going to do something I enjoy, and I’m going to look for solutions. But I am NOT going to worry or fret. So you’re going to just sit back and simmer while I get back in touch with life.”
See a movie. Talk to a friend. Go to church. Pray to God. And don’t let problems get you down . . . let me tell you something: ALL of us have been completely failed by our government and business leaders, and THEY are the ones who should feel bad . . . YOU and I didn’t have anything to do with it!
So, relax. Take a breather. You’re gonna be OK!
Thanks I will try
~lilies~ wrote:
:( you are not alone. Things are just too hard to bear despite letting them slip away. But they will come and hunt us every now and then. Do you believe you need to cure the root of your fears? or going back to that same spot where you were for the past 2 years and see how those years have made you stronger?
They would not feel nice, but if you really go through it, it has made you become better. There are no absolute answer as to why they happened for life goes beyond one’s understanding. And what we need to do is to take those pain with us BUT realize the importance of moving on.
I’m talking vague here as i am also struggling myself.
But i wish you well. I hope by telling you that you are not alone helps even a little.
Thanks Lilies, I have cured the root of my problem, I left it 2 years ago and moved far, far away from that part of my life. The memmories of it however have not been delt with. The responsibilities I am now stuck with to handle on my own are great. My deamons come to me at night, that is why I do not sleep well. I spend my time worring about others. Thoes deamons want me to listen to them, I so far have avoided them. It is only a matter of time before I must surrender to all that has happened.
No matter what happens, entertain only the good voices you hear around you. Listen to friends whose never ending support would not let you down. Do not stray from the good voices and you will never go wrong.
And when you cry, then please cry. Scream when you need to. Exercise and take a long bath. Then call a friend or be with friends and talk talk talk.
Do not be scared to see yourself from the start again. Because there would always be a time when you reach a happy ending.
And I know I am not alone, life is that way, we all have hard times to deal with. I do not know your story, but I know that we all have one, that is why we are here, I thank you for your kindness, I do try to keep myself surounded by good people. I do cry, and have been doing a good job of it this past couple of days. I do think the clouds will lift soon. I appreicate your time with me.
my friend,,,plz don’t cry,,the life still good and there a very nice moments waiting for you. just be courage and insist to think in future and not the past for that bad moments
I cry to……as you might suspect. So remember you are not alone……I’ve recently realized that myself.
A freind of mine once told me to acknowlegde and feel those things that trouble you and then let them go. Focus on the things you can influence & control….not on the things you can’t.
I practice this but am not always successful.
Hmmmm…no matter how different we all are…..we’re all alike.
So You say That you have won on every thing
galledutchfor wrote:
So You say That you have won on every thing
I do not understand your statement!
Not really. I thought this is what you want to say
galledutchfor wrote:
Not really. I thought this is what you want to say
It must be a language barier
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All that i have been through, is finally catching up with me.
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