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My GF/Fiance and I recently broke up (( still very much in love with each other))

But we started talking again and we’ve been out on a few dates, and I can see us getting back together, but I am afraid of doing that. I don’t want to feel that hurt again, but I want her back so badly at the same time..I just want to go about this the right way.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 minutes after post)

why did you break up?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Well we had been arguing ALOT the past 3 months and she wanted to go away to school, and just a ton of other things..

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AshleyAnemia. (: offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Love can over come all these things.
Remember, you can’t do anything in life without hurting anyone.
That’s impossible.
:)
Don’t feel so down.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

I’d say make it a long engagement… how old are you?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (7 minutes after post)

I am 19 years old. And dont give me that crap of I’m too young.

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US | 1 year, 2 months ago (9 minutes after post)

(v) 1 k 3 wrote:
I am 19 years old. And dont give me that crap of I’m too young.

:) I won’t.
Love/Trust works in mysterious ways.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (44 minutes after post)

Ok… I wont tell you that. What I’ll tell you it is a fact that the pre-frontal cortex of the brain is not fully developed until the age of 17 -23. This is the area of the brain that controls emotions. It is perhaps why the statistics for younger marriages are in favor of failure. I do not discount that you are in love, or more to the point that you feel you are in love, but there is a he|| of alot of (to use your words) crap that you have to live through yet. You’ve already proven to me that you both are too immature for marriage now. You fight all the time… she’s not even around… and a TON of other things, but ***** BUT ***** you still love each other. I suggest that you don’t know what love is. Make it a long engagement… one where she’s out of school and college is all finished with…. and for GOD’s sake don’t make any babies.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (47 minutes after post)

OKay, thanks for your advice.

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