Love help: Can’t Sleep, Lost.

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Can’t Sleep, Lost.

If she is trying to move on should i let her move on? I Love Her So Much and she Loves me but doesn’t really like me anymore. we try to work things out and we just argue. i’m going to ask her if she want to move on and wants me to try to move on with my life. because i want to know and want whats best for her i really do… i can’t sleep i’m scared that she will never be my friend again and will never love me again. i’ve seen her out with other guys alone. and i get scared. i don’t know what to do. i’m hurt but i hurt even more knowing i’m hurting her.. am i hurting her because she knows i care about her and that when i see her with other guys it hurts me? i’m confused scared.. i’m lost.. please someone help me.. everyone says i’ll move on but thats not true.. i will never move on, she is my one and only.. at points i would rathar die then feel the pain i have. but even though she hurts me i know when we get along its all worth it.. i’m on top of the world.. i kinda want to die, so she can move on and not think about me anymore. i want her to be happy and i want to be able to make her happy but if i can’t i would rather die. she is the world to me and all is lost without her. Please Help Me Anyone

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Coalesce 31 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (18 minutes after post)

The world is a dark and scary place… and googlemaps can only help so much… http://xkcd.com/461/

I spent 6 years with the love of my life… I think to some extent or another I can honestly say I understand what you are feeling.

The pain doesn’t go away, it just gets smaller… or maybe we just get bigger. Either way it doesn’t fill you up completely forever. Though there are parts of you that may be frozen in time, you’ll find that there is enough of you left over to live… and to love.

It’s a terrifying thought, both beautiful and depressing: The sun always rises tomorrow, whether we want it to or not.

As to the other issue… I think we all only get one life to live, and when it’s over… I think that’s it… the end.

The upshot of this being: Beautiful or painful it’s all you will ever have, there isn’t anything else. Cherish every scrap of life you can hoard because when it’s gone there is nothing left to regret what you’ve done or not done. When you only get x amount of life EVER… well (email removed) don’t let it go one f#k!n second before it is taken from you.

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♥ tiffany. 34 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (19 minutes after post)

“If you love something, set it free; if it comes back it’s yours, if it doesn’t, it never was.”

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (24 minutes after post)

Things aren’t always what they seem. A man’s love for a woman will drive him to the peak of the highest hills and imprison him to the depths of the lowest dungeon. Be very careful of yourself sir. Part of being worthy for a woman is being a man. That means being strong. Allow love to take you to the top of that mountain. But let not her abscence or hurt or your uncertainty drag you to a place you cannot escape.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (50 minutes after post)

If you truly love her and it really hurts you when you see her with other guys, then don’t give up! Let her know it that you care! Let her feel your support, love and the warmth of your heart! If you guys argue maybe you just need some time…At the same time try not to suppress her with your feelings but find other ways to let her know about them…I really hope that things get better for you…Because I understand how hard it is…

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1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

Maybe you should tell her how you feel when she’s with other guys. . .
How do you know she doesn’t really like you, has she said anything?

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Austin, TX, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (6 hours, 15 minutes after post)

I know it hurts so much, but sometimes, SOMETIMES, it is better have it ended. My realtionship hurt me so much while i was in it, and when it was ended I didn’t think iw ould be able to breath again, but now I can,like coalesce said, the pain never goes away, it doesn’t. It fades with time, and its scary. The best advice i can give you, is to follow the Cliches. If you love something let it go, best thing ever. I promise you, you’ll be okay in time.

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psychic56 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 week after post)

contact me there is still hope I will help you thru this

heida 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

Well, I think its better You to let her go. If theres still a hope, she’ll come back, if not….
I don’t really know much about love, but I understand You. I know it hurts so much, but its really better to let go. And please NEVER say You want to die. Its a horrible thing to say. Remember- if She is You’re soule mate theres will be nothing to tare You apart. :)

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