Love help: So, I have this new boyfriend..

Molly :]

So, I have this new boyfriend..

We had our first date yesterday, and it was AMAZING! But I want it to last.. And my past experiences have only has up to two months.. I wanna be with this guy for much longer. How can I keep him interested?

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Red_Sky 958 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

Be yourself! All other things will fall into place :)

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Molly :] 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

But, how can I keep him interested? Yesterday I had barely anything to say, I was just so nervous.. I explained that to him though, and he’s okay with that, he said he enjoyed the day anyway.. But I don’t wanna have to ALWAYS have nothing to say! I REALLY like this guy.

Help me with: Leaving Cert is getting closer, and my efforts are getting worse.

Red_Sky 958 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (38 minutes after post)

Hahaha it’ll get easier, love. Promise. The more comfortable you two get with each other the easier conversation will be. Like most things in life, it just takes time.

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Molly :] 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (54 minutes after post)

Yeah. I guess so. Thanks! :D

Help me with: Leaving Cert is getting closer, and my efforts are getting worse.

KNielsen13 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (57 minutes after post)

If he’s the right guy, it will last. You have to relax, the best thing you can do is not be nervous. If he can’t figure out you’re great, he’s not worth it trust me.

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Molly :] 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (58 minutes after post)

I’m getting the impression that he’s not really into us to be honest though.. If he’s on msn, I have to talk to him first.. I’m always the one who texts first.. But when we’re in person, he takes the initiative, and makes everything seem perfect.. It’s oh so confusing..

Should I wait for him to text me first?

Help me with: Leaving Cert is getting closer, and my efforts are getting worse.

KNielsen13 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

You have to go with your gut feeling on this one. If deep down you believe he’s not really into you, then just hang out with him casually or end it all together. Do not be with a guy who’s not into just for the sake of not being alone that will only make you unhappy in the end. As for the texting, every relationship is 50/50. You can text him something friendly, casual, if you want. The next time the ball should be in his court.

Help me with: So, my boyfriend is going to be moving in with me in the next couple weeks.

Molly :] 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

Yeah.. I guess..

Help me with: Leaving Cert is getting closer, and my efforts are getting worse.

KNielsen13 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

Sorry, there is no answer that will make you feel better. I have been where you are hundreds of times and it sucks. Just take it one day at a time and stay busy. It could help keep your mind off of him. You do not want him to be your life, you want him to be a part of your life.

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Molly :] 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (22 hours, 22 minutes after post)

Hmmmm…

Things are good again now, I talked to him about it.. I still have to take the initiative like.. And text him first etc, but he’s being nice again now..

I have one hell of a green eyed monster though, every girl that he talks to is SOOO much better than me, imo. But hopefully that feeling will banish.

Help me with: Leaving Cert is getting closer, and my efforts are getting worse.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (4 weeks after post)

Gurl don’t think that any girl is better than you bc she’s not… obviously if she was better he would be with her & not you… I have the same feeling sometimes with my bf but then I just think hmm he’s with me so w/e… I think sometimes we girls think to much when it comes to relationships && really we just need to chill & let time take its coursee :))

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