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Olivia needs help.

I am in a long distance relationship and have trust issues. My boyfriend is supportive and gives me assurance of his loyalty.

Now that he is at work and his home internet is not working, it is driving me nuts.

Could he be telling a lie?

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matt.jenn8 offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (8 hours, 24 minutes after post)

This is a big issue, honesty and trust are the foundations of a relationship. If you want to stay with him and have a strong relationship trust him, in return he will trust you. If you find it to hard to trust him, then it probably isnt meant to be

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*olivia offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (9 hours, 4 minutes after post)

Yes i understand what you are trying to say. We both are working on this. My bf is inlove with me and so am i to him, i’m just in panic and i have trust issues.

To be honest, i have had major trust issues in my past relationships as well. This is not the first time.

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matt.jenn8 offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (9 hours, 6 minutes after post)

I have had the same problems before, let him know that it is not him, but others that have hurt you in the past, the more conciderate he is of this, the sooner you will be able to move on and enjoy what time you do have together

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

Hey olivia, i do have trust issues with my partner too because of one previous mistake in particular and i know very well how hard it is to trust sometimes. I think you should speak to him and let him know the reasons why you do not trust him 100%. You should help each other. If he gives you more reassurance you will feel safer and you will trust him even more. However, be careful cos our minds can play tricks on us. These trust problems even affect me in my dreams!! Dont let these things freak u out!! There is nothing better than good communication

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*olivia offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (3 days, 23 hours after post)

Thank you, we do that all the time. He helps me, explains to me a lot. Sometimes he says he gets tired giving me assurance. So one time i told him maybe we need to break up and he says no.

Now we are doing very well. I am trying to be more trustful.

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