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Overlord offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

“A miracle is an event believed to be caused by interposition of divine intervention by a supernatural being in the universe by which the ordinary operation of Nature is overruled, suspended, or modified. The term is derived from Latin word miraculum meaning “something wonderful”.”

But really, miracles are nothing impossible. Miracle is when something what you desperatly need happens even when chances of it to occur are very low.
Are miracles evidence of existance of deity? I won’t answer this. Just try to pray to God when you need him. You will see.

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Verum Causa online Verified User (1 month, 4 weeks) Shouts: 49 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

So you would define a person on the brink of death, then inexplicably well as a miracle, and it proves the existence of a deity?

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theresape offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Waltham, MA, US | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

Could be a miracle, could be a lucky break. Thinking of it as a miracle is a lot nicer, because it gives us hope that our prayers are heard and answered.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (48 minutes after post)

So when someone drops dead for no apparent reason, that is a miracle too?

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (49 minutes after post)

theresape wrote:
Could be a miracle, could be a lucky break. Thinking of it as a miracle is a lot nicer, because it gives us hope that our prayers are heard and answered.

Indeed. Also miracles doesn’t have to be ‘big’ things. If you ask God for a good day, and you will have one, it will be miracle. It maybe was caused my milion of factors, but eventually your day was good - like you asked for.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

Verum Causa wrote:
So when someone drops dead for no apparent reason, that is a miracle too?

You are missing the point. Miracles are good. Death is not good.

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Waltham, MA, US | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

Verum Causa wrote:
So when someone drops dead for no apparent reason, that is a miracle too?

I guess it depends on whether someone prayed for that or not.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (51 minutes after post)

The natural order was suspended. Healthy people don’t suddenly die. Sounds like a miracle to me.

Does prayer work?

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (55 minutes after post)

Praying for death or any harm shall not work - God left us free will for some reason. Responding to such a pray would be interference with basic rights of our existance.

And healthy ppl don’t suddenly die. Find me one person who died but was PERFECTLY healthy in this time(excluding being crushed by truck/dieing in plane crash/etc) and you can continue holding to this argument.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (57 minutes after post)

You’re saying that what happens to a person is what just happens to a person?

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (59 minutes after post)
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Overlord offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

People don’t die without a reason. He might have been poisoned somehow, his body might failed because of all sport he was doing…
You are saying like it was thunder from a sky which killed him…

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Coalesce offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 19 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

Anything we don’t currently understand is ‘miraculous’. So, the fact that when I jump I don’t just float off into space… well, we call that gravity. While we know a good bit about how it interacts with things, we still haven’t the faintest clue WHAT it is, what physically transfers gravity. Well, since we don’t understand it fully, right now it’s a ‘miracle’ that I don’t just float off into space. Hopefully within the next year the Large Hadron Collider will exhibit the Higgs Boson (theorized mechanism for gravity/mass transferrence) and it will no longer be miraculous… it’ll be a function of particle physics.

Back in the day, a family being spared from the Plague… miracle. Today we would recognize however that more than likely their survival resulted from hygeinic habits beyond the norm for their time.

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Coalesce offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 19 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

When my computer crashes for no apparent reason, I don’t assume that God struck it dead. I just assume that something went wrong that I do not fully comprehend.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

So what happened to him is just what happened to him? And what happens to things just happens to things?

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Overlord offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

Everything happens with a reason. If we can’t find the reason - we think about it in luck/accident case. Even if we find reason, but it happens when we need it - it might be miracle.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

Verum Causa wrote:
So what happened to him is just what happened to him? And what happens to things just happens to things?

What alternative is there?

I can’t buy the logic of: “Anything that we can’t understand must be the direct intervention of God”. I get emails all the time telling me that ’so and so wants to have your strong *** tonight’. I don’t know how the emails get there… but I certainly don’t assume that it’s a sign from God that I need to give my strong *** to so and so tonight.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

So if the bad that happens to people just happens, why can’t the good that happens to people just happens? Why insert the idea of a deity causing it?

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Coalesce offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 19 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

Exaca-tica-ly! Whether an event is positive or negative is fully irrelevant :)
The main point is whether you ascribe the unknown to ’supernatural forces’ or whether you attribute them to ’scientific principles as yet unexplained’.

Me, I pick science. Why? Because I’ve followed the proscribed practicum of several world religions and haven’t ever ‘experienced’ a higher power regarding faith, belief, or communication with the other-worldly.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

I belive in science and in God. Yeah, it doesn’t negate each other. In personal life I asked ’supernatural Being’ for help many times, and thing that broke all hypothetical calculations happend. Enough big reason for me. Science is way to discover the world, while faith is way of keeping yourself mentaly fulfilled with knowledge that someone is watching you, someone Who you can trust.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 27 minutes after post)

Could it be that you prayed for things and coincidentally they happened, that they were not caused by a deity?

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 29 minutes after post)

Maybe.
But what if they were caused by a deity?

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 36 minutes after post)

How would you know?

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 37 minutes after post)

I wouldn’t. I wouldn’t know if it wasn’t neither.

Here comes matter of faith.

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Coalesce offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 19 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 50 minutes after post)

Science is the only way to ‘know’ anything. Anything not based on science is ‘faith’ or ‘belief’ (which truth be told is more powerful than science for many believers).

The only way to ‘know’ whether it is coincidence or not is through experimentation. Write down a list of things to pray for. Pray only for that one thing, for 7 consecutive days. Keep track of which things happen within 14 days of your first day of prayer.

Next, after gaining a record of how often 7 days of prayer works over a 14 day stretch… go through the same list of things that you prayed for. This time do not pray at all, just rub a lucky rabbits foot and wish for what you want to happen. Wish for 7 consecutive days, keep track of which happen within 14 days of the first day of wishing.

One thing to be careful about… make sure that what you are praying vs. wishing for is repeatable. Thus if you pray that person x falls in love… it is unlikely that you can wish it to happen as they are already in love. Also, when repeating a prayer/wish be certain the scenario is as close to exactly the same as possible I.E. you can’t pray for person a to be healthy, and then wish for person b to be healthy… since they are different people and have different immune systems/diseases, the results wont reflect actual prayer/wish power.

Things to test with prayer vs. wishes:

1) Pray/wish that a bird will land on your windowsill and peck on the window during the middle of the day. (be certain to spend the same amount of time in the room with both experiments to keep the chances of this randomly happening the same).

2) Pray/wish that you will find a $1 bill ‘magically’ in the bottom drawer of your dresser.

3) Pray/wish that your white socks will turn blue

4) Pray/wish that your shoe-laces break (again keep in mind the 14 day rule… results are only valid within 14 days of the first day of prayer/wishing.)

5) Pray/wish that you roll a 7 with a pair of dice 3 times in a row (be fair… only roll the dice once each day for the 7 days of experimenting. No re-rolling, count the dice as they lay wherever they end up.)

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 50 minutes after post)

Great discussion you got going here, Verum Causa. I’m kind of jumping in the middle of your and Overlord’s discussion, but I agree with Overlord. This is totally a matter of faith. No one will ever be able to “prove” from a scientific standpoint that there is a diety OR that there is not. After all, very few things have been proven under scientific standards. I was reminded of that last night when my daughter asked me to quiz her in biology, and one of the questions was about the “cell theory,” which states that all living things are composed of cells and cell products. Under science, this is still a theory, because of the strict measure of proof required. Matters of spirituality will never be able to be proved under this standard. After all, wouldn’t you admit that you also have “faith” that there is no diety?

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 53 minutes after post)

Fair enough. But I think it is kind of like looking at the world through rose colored glasses.

I’ve heard it put this way:

Say you had a sister living up north, and one winter she drives down to visit you. You can contribute anything that happened to a deity.

Scenario 1: Your sister drives down and nothing happens. Thank God she made it down without anything happening.

Scenario 2: Your sister drives down. Her vehicle slides on the ice, but she regains control and nothing happens. Thank God that she made it down safely.

Scenario 3: Your sister drives down. She is involved in a minor accident, but she is not injured. Thank God she is safe and the damage to the car is repairable.

Scenario 4: Your sister drives down. She is involved in a major accident in which the car is totaled, and she is minorly injured. Thank God she is alive.

Scenario 5: Your sister drives down. She is involved in an accident and dies. It is the will of God.

Now, if it makes you feel better to think that bad things happen for a reason, then I could understand why faith is useful.

Let’s look at the scenarios from someone who doesn’t attribute things to faith.

Scenario 1: Uneventful trip. Let’s examine what safety precautions and route your sister took to ensure a safe journey back.

Scenario 2: Slides on ice. Let’s consider what precautions could have prevented that. Chains on the tires and proper driving habits.

Scenario 3: Minor accident. Let’s see what safety devices kept her safe, and let’s see what could have prevented the accident.

Scenario 4: Major accident. Let’s see what safety devices saved her life, and let’s see what could have prevented the accident or minimized its impacts.

Scenario 5: Death. Let’s see what devices and behaviors could have prevented this tragic accident from happening. Let’s take time to reflect on the value of this person.

Looking at the differences in responses of people of faith vs. people without, it is easy to see that people of faith don’t examine what happened to learn or grow from it. People without faith want to know why everything happens, and assume that nothing is true without proof.

I can understand if this example is difficult to understand. Think of it this way. If the inventor of seatbelts had attributed all the deaths to chance, fate, luck, the will of God, and not questioned what was happening, he or she would have never made the seatbelt. He did question, and the seatbelt has saved hundreds of thousands of lives.

So I ask:

Is it better to live with faith, assuming you know why things happened and assuming there is nothing you can do about it, or is it better to live without faith, attempting to find out what happened and trying to do something about it?

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 3 minutes after post)

Coalesce, you can’t pray for things which are sensless. Prays are for things bit more justified. And seriosuly, what would be point of making your socks go blue? Rather try asking for something that can be useful for anyone.

Verum: blind faith is one of worst things that can happen to human. Faith is not about blind belief in God’s will. We should firstly examine matter from side of science, and than fulfill it with deity. Blind faith is same dangerous for mental health of person as living without any faith.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 9 minutes after post)

Interesting. . .but I doubt that very few persons who believe in God would say that all vehicle deaths were “chance, fate, luck, or the will of God.” Most of us understand that God gave us a brain, and expects us to use it. Using your example, He expects us to use appropriate safety precautions such as checking road conditions, using chains, and using seat belts. He expects us to look at things such as vehicle accidents to see how those deaths could have been prevented. Frankly, that’s one of my biggest problem with Christian Scientists is because God gave us the knowledge of the medical field to use to heal our bodies. Ignoring that knowledge and stating that you will rely solely on God to heal is folly, and I would go so far to say it’s disrespectful to God.

So, my approach to your example is to combine the views in the scenarios. For example, under scenario 4, I would thank God that her life was spared, but I would also want to know how and if it could have been prevented at all through safety measures. My faith coexists with my efforts to make things better through my own efforts. I live with faith, but I certainly do not assume that there is nothing I can do to prevent bad things from happening.

Also, I want to thank you for using such a respectful tone in your discussions on the topic. That’s not always the case with some - I’m afraid this type of topic often brings out the strident and obnoxiousness from BOTH sides, which is regretful since I think it’s great to discuss these things.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 11 minutes after post)

I am in agreement with the majority of Overlord’s and iwana’s posts.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 17 minutes after post)

I’m afraid that I got tons of work to do, and I have to focus on it. Thank you for fair conversation, I hope to continue it somewhen. :)

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 19 minutes after post)

I also extend my thanks for your fair conversation to everyone.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 36 minutes after post)

of course not….miracles or no miracles….God exists….

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Coalesce offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 19 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 37 minutes after post)

… or not.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (10 hours, 4 minutes after post)

Verum Causa wrote:
So when someone drops dead for no apparent reason, that is a miracle too?

“In God’s eyes there is no such thing as an untimely death, even though in our eyes it certainly doesn’t seem that way,”

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (6 days after post)

I don’t think so. with miracles and no miracles…..no questions about that….God exists in the hearts of man.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 1 hour after post)

… or not. Again.

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