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At school theres this one boy whos been stuck in my mind for ages now. He’s my ex. I went out with him earlier this year, and it didnt last very long, but afterwards there was no awkwardness that ive had with previous boyfriends, we talked like friends as before. Ive never stopped liking him, and i really want to get back with him, but where do i start?

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

Why did you brake up?

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

He just said that it was all a bit rushed, he still likes me, but he didnt want a realtionship right now, and this was in february. Should I wait a bit longer? It has been some time since that happened.

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Hebden Bridge, C2, GB | 3 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

Maybe he only sees you as a friend and doesn’t want to be back in a relationship with you? You might be better to just stay friends with him for now, sometimes its better to have a close friend than to be in a relationship.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

That’s awesome. Cherish that relationship with him. It probably just means that you make really good friends and maybe aren’t cut out for the full blooded thing. Plus, you’re in school, chill out. Relationships are almost meaningless in school.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

Talk to him, try to find out what he thinks about it…

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