work help: im going cazy!

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im going cazy!

!!!

i started going out at night with one of my mates from work and she introduced me to her cousin well, i sorta started to like him and he apparently likes me to!!!
whats the problem?
well its the fact that my mate told me that she wont let me get with him cos it will end badly and mymum hasnt even met him and ive never said a bad word against him but keeps telling me to stay away and wont listen to me when i tell her that he is a nice lad.
ok i dont know him that well like but like i said i havent a bad word to say against him cos from the moment i met him he was so nice to me and i really dunno what i should do about it

someone please help!!!

xoxo

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2511 ♥ S ♥ ! ☺ 342 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

Don’t you have his name?

Search for him in Facebbok or MySpace, get his mail, and that settles it…

Anonymous #
1 month, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

yea i have his name found him on bebo.
but how does just doing that settle it, its not the answer!
xoxo

EmilyRI 24 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

He could be putting on a front to you so you think he’s awesome and perfect but he really is bad news

Help me with: Life really loves to throw lemons.

2511 ♥ S ♥ ! ☺ 342 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Yeah, you get to know him, without listening to your friend….

2511 ♥ S ♥ ! ☺ 342 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

EmilyRI wrote:
He could be putting on a front to you so you think he’s awesome and perfect but he really is bad news

That can be too

Anonymous #
1 month, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

yea i no thats what im scared off but what if he isnt putting on a front what if he really likes me and i maybe he’s not the same person
i dunno

xoxo

2511 ♥ S ♥ ! ☺ 342 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Again…you’ve his mail…get to know him…

EmilyRI 24 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

You don’t have to jump into anything right away. Take it slow. Hang out with him in a group. Get to know him better as a person!

Help me with: Life really loves to throw lemons.

Anonymous #
1 month, 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

i feel like i already do know him i no that sounds cheesy but ya no what i mean,

im sat at home and i go crazy cos more than anything i wanna be out by his side talking 2 him, looking at him
ya no
xoxo

2511 ♥ S ♥ ! ☺ 342 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Yeah, but you only met him once…that isn’t enough to get to know someone…for instance there are marriages that end up badly because of this…

EmilyRI 24 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

I know what you mean but you should explore it more instead of letting your emotions be your guide. Use your head!

Help me with: Life really loves to throw lemons.

Anonymous #
1 month, 3 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

2511 wrote:
Yeah, but you only met him once…that isn’t enough to get to know someone…for instance there are marriages that end up badly because of this…

… i havent only met him once!
its been a few times in like 2 weeks
and yea it aint much different but its still more than once
xoxo

EmilyRI wrote:
I know what you mean but you should explore it more instead of letting your emotions be your guide. Use your head!

i no but i prefer to use my emotions cos my head aint ever that good, it doesnt know what i want.
xoxo

2511 ♥ S ♥ ! ☺ 342 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

Then…get to know him better…

EmilyRI 24 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

Have you asked your friend from work why she’s hesitant to let you see him?

Help me with: Life really loves to throw lemons.

Anonymous #
1 month, 2 weeks ago (4 days, 13 hours after post)

EmilyRI wrote:
Have you asked your friend from work why she’s hesitant to let you see him?

yea but she just said ‘ you’ll come out with something and it woont be a happy face’
xoxo

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