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Mixed signals from my crush?

So, there’s this guy I like. He’s a really good friend of mine. We hung out almost all weekend. He’s single, never had a girlfriend. I’m totally in love with him, too. So the problem is that he flirts a LOT. Then he said to me “Sheesh. I’m such a flirt. Your parents are gonna think I’m your boyfriend.” I didn’t really know if this was a hint or what. But then he said he doesn’t want a girlfriend cause he doesn’t like commitment and that he “loves me in a brotherly way”. But he was SOO flirty! He plays with my hair, teases me, doesn’t hang up the phone when we talk, touches me, makes constant eye contact, etc. I thought he liked me, but then he said that stuff and now I’m not sure. Is he maybe just being shy, or does he really just like me as a friend? I don’t understand him!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

friend with benefits?

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1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

Are you comfortable asking him directly….maybe disclosing your feelings for him.

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Da⌐11 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

It could be that he is shy or that he doesn’t want a girlfriend.

Does he hook up with girls on a regular bases? If not than I would say he is being shy and does not want to put himself in a position where you can reject and there for hurt him. I would then suggest to you to make the first move.

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wonderwall offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

yeah tell him how u feel…he may be giving u hints..

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GB | 1 year, 1 month ago (13 minutes after post)

wow, would you treat a brother like that?
talk to him and tell him how you feel, it seems obvious that he likes you too so…

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (37 minutes after post)

I think he wants to leave the door open and he was throwing feelers to see how you would respond to what he said!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (59 minutes after post)

he was just checking too see what you were goin to say. let him know how u feel by tlkin to him, o if you dont want to do this, then jst drop hints on weatheer you like him or not x

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