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hi all,

I’m a girl and in a relationship. I’ve given my everything to this relationship but still its not working out. earlier everything was fine. but now a days I’ve started fighting with him often on small little issues. He also gets very frustrated because of this. I really need to discuss this. because if this relationship is going to fail i may die. dont have any other option with me.
he loves me a lot but dont want to tell anyone about our relationship. in a group he never focuses on me. he forgot our anniversary and i reminded him but then also he didnt wish me. to him these are very small thing and in a relationship shouldnt matter. but for me these are important. he also loves me, i know this. I dont know how to make him understand.
please help me!

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Anonymous #
1 year, 2 months ago (4 minutes after post)

sounds like he doesnt respect you, you should confront him and talk to him about it, and have a real chat not just a 5 minute one, dont let him end it quick and dont let him stall it, i should know im a guy lol

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (13 minutes after post)

I also think that you guys need to have a good long chat in which you explain to him how you’ve been feeling recently and how much the small details actually do matter to you. It might not be easy for him or you to express how you really feel but you should both give it a go. If you both love each other then communication is the key.

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Neutra offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (16 minutes after post)

He just wants to hang out with his friends, he dosen’t forget you. Also, one day out of a year shouldn’t matter. For every day is special and you should enjoy each day as if it was your anniversary. Don’t just wait till one day to tell each other you love one another.

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Well , if he really cared about you, you would be getting all you needs and then some met. He is taking this relationship for granted I feel. Have a serious talk with him , and if he gets angry, or refuses to give you the respect you need, I advise you to get out of this relationship.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

sit him down and tell him that your not having it. explain to him why these things are all down to respect and then explain how it feels foe him to treat you like this

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