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My little cousin asked me this todayyy…

I was in my room on AIM talking to him, because he was using his sister’s account to talk to me… (he’s 6 years old) and we were doing a video call so i could hear him and he asked me “When people die and are burried under the ground, do they still get older or stay the same age forever?” I didn’t know what to say… and when his sister heard him ask that, she pulled him away and said “umm go see mom… dinners ready!!!!” WHAT DO I SAY TO HIM!

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Kanabi offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

tell him they turn into birds. Thats what i told my cousin. He still believes me^^

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Moogle offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 205 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

Tell him the truth, you rot and decay until your body becomes part of the earth again. Just pretty it up, that way you don’t have to lie.

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THE INTERNET offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

lol why not tell him that we do get older, technically we do.
would also help him understand that some peopl still celebrate dead ancestor’s birthdays

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THE INTERNET offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

Moogle wrote:
Tell him the truth, you rot and decay until your body becomes part of the earth again. Just pretty it up, that way you don’t have to lie.

yea, like that

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Moogle offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 205 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

Just say this, when people die and they are buried, they grow in a different way. Their bodies become part of the earth but their being still ages. It’s really a tough subject for a 6 year old.

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Basics offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (40 minutes after post)

There’s different things you can say. He’s your family you know him best. So you will ultimatley know the best answere. Look at him and see what he’s ready for. The birds and the bees or the truth of the decaying organs. Close to what moogle suggested.

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Neutra offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (46 minutes after post)

Technically, they still have an age, but it is kinda useless since it dosen’t serve a purpose. They have a “what they would had been” age.

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Moogle offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 205 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (47 minutes after post)

Neutra wrote:
Technically, they still have an age, but it is kinda useless since it dosen’t serve a purpose. They have a “what they would had been” age.

Could you really explain that to a 6 year old though?

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Basics offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (53 minutes after post)

lol… Moogle don’t point the obvious now..

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Moogle offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 205 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (55 minutes after post)

I just think it’s best to tell the truth and sugar coat it a little.

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Mï†z¥-superMODel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Tullahoma, TN, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 hours, 11 minutes after post)

I agree with telling him the truth, in a way he can understand, of course.

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Mï†z¥-superMODel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Tullahoma, TN, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 hours, 14 minutes after post)
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