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i cant think of any off the bat but i would love to hear some of yours

I do.

I find it coincidence that some people look ALIKE despite their beliefs, language, ethnicity, nationality, and race.

ill reply a few times….you got me intreged

evelotion-the scientific cause of all similarity and diversity in life

well this is pretty coincidental…

i know a girl who has the same first AND second name as me. she has a sister by the same name as mine, her birthday is on the same day we both have the same kind of dog (pug) and yeah i think that was it…
kinda freaked me out the ifrst itme i met her XD

i believe everything happens for a reason-so i agree with what you just said Dougie

Hmmm, lots come to mind, but the one that stands out is; the worlds most intelligent people, doing the worlds most stupidest things.

lol…for thousands of years:)

In all truth i don’t believe in this whole everything is connected, give me some good theories and hard core evidence. but at times eg. i started school in a private school which was my first five years and i hav been moving around. and let me tell u moving across the sea and all traveling. from NY to Fl. to the carrivean to well around. and i was thinking how awful it is an how i wish i would see those suckers. and hey i did meet them at my campus. alot of them from brooklyn some old neighbors from statin island and soo much which was odd but cool. and i thought this uncle of mine was dead cause i don’t keep in touch with my dads family and guess was tada i wrote a post on facebook i think and here he is in dania beach saying hello wat are the dam odds but i still don’t believe in all that crap of destiny well not today.

its the law of attraction! its works, good or bad. i split up with my ex and couldnt stop thinking about him and imagining bumping into him. and so i constantly bumped into him, sometimes in the strangest of places. it was like i was willing it happen, even though the thought filled me with dread! as time went on i stopped thinking about it so much, made a concious effort and i havent seen him for months! ill most probably bump into him toinght now…. arrgggghh! no worries, im ready for him now, i can and will handle it!

what about someone you despise randomly speaking to you after months of nothing. When you were just thiking about that person and they just randomly start talking to you. How can this be more than coincidence? Mainly if you didn’t want to talk to them cause it brings you down?

Good stuff though man

wow dougie, you’ve done it again! I love your brain!

I guess the only thing I can think of as coincidental beyond that of an everyday randomness is my boyfriend and I. For 3 years before we met, our lives crossed quite frequently, which we later found out. For example, my team supervisor in a crappy call centre job I had 3 years ago was and still is a regular friend of my boyfriend. Also, his housemate of 3 years lived with me for a year in a different city. He lived next door to my cousin, who I would visit regularly, but had never seen him when he lived there.. Constantly crossing, but we only realised when we talk about things now. And scarily it still happens! A friend of his dated an old university pal of mine, and they met randomly in a bar in London, we both got an invite to catch up in a pub, only when we looked at where and when we were meeting them did we start to freak, it shocked us more when we got there and they were a couple!
It just makes me believe we’re meant to be together. It’s odder that our paths crossed so often too as he’s from Scotland and I’m from Manchester!

Thinking about it, I just rememebered, my best friend from Uni went travelling before I met her in our first year of uni. We were in a bar chatting about how she’d taken part in a fijian wedding ceremony with a random lad from the UK, and she was meant to meet him there so we were waiting for him. That moment I spied a lad walking into the bar who I’d gone to secondary school with. Turns out (you guessed it) he was the guy who had “married” my friend.

Gives me chills down my spine when things like that happen… but it’s still mega exciting! I agree with Dougie, there are things that are meant to happen, however the influence of thinking in a certain manner can also influence the way our lives turn out. I mean, my boyfriend and I have similar tastes in the type of people we socialise with so it’s not that unlikely that we would forge similar friendships. And my friend from school and my friend from University are people who I can connect with, it’s not unlikely that if they met that they would get on… the bizarre thing in all of it is that they DID meet it’s not who, it’s where - that’s the spooky otherly worldly odd bit to all this.

hmmm, i just re-read what I wrote and it’s longwinded, and makes no sense… I’ll post it anyway and let you try to decipher my mad ramblings!

WOW! thats insane! but freakin awesome!!! :O

its amazing how things can just work out like that eh? VERY coincidental…
no actually.. that had to be more than just a coincidence… more like it was supposed to happen. fate, say.

making the universe work for you my friend! that is what its all about. im still trying to get a handle on my thoughts creating my world… oooh im gonna make it fab! i believe!
heres a little story not nearly as exciting as yours but it was one of my first, clicked in experiences - id just started working and moved into my own place. i was struggling badly with money. it was 2 days from payday and i had zero cash i mean i was over my overdraft. a friend from work had bought me a pack of seeds for me for 50p and i didnt have the 50p to give her! everyone laughed at me not having it, i did too but was so embarassed. in the afternoon, i was out with her walking through the park and there gn the grass was a shiny 50 pence piece! the exact amount i needed?! ive never been so happy to see one! i paid her back with it there and then and thanked the universe straight after!

the thought of it still makes me smile, simple things eh? mainly because its when it all started making sense to me. at that time i started taking responsibilty for my world, believing, taking chances and ive not looked back since. ive had a few experiences similar to it since, my next ones gonna be a big high energy one just like yours… i can feel it!