Love help: I have Completely Lost Respect!

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I have Completely Lost Respect!

For my ex- if you have been following my posting/life!
He cheated on me and I have been trying SO hard to get him back for the past 6mos, going crazy over him, and last night talking to myself, (not going crazying, just shifting tho thoughts) I realized that ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER AND A LIER! and love is not cheating or lieing. Seeing him without his shirt on - maked me sick last night, as for a few weeks ago I would have been crazy over that, and now him doing the dishes just makes me laught - a little too late, when we were together he never did them, even when i was working 2 jobs and a full time student…, I have became a hubble person and my heart is happy that he wont cheat on me again!!!
God I love me, and I’m happy,
I do reget, that past 2.5 yrs of my life because i can’t get them back, but i can make dam sure that the for the futur i will take care of me and having ahubble heart really makes it easiler…
thank you ALL for listening rant and rave and all that you all have helped me more than my own family - thanks….

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rememberpoe 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

:) I am glad you found that inner voice. it is hard to hear sometimes, but once you do.. everything changes.

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Richard Cor de Lyon 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

You go girl… and don’t regret the past… it’s gone and nothing to regret about it. If we linger in the past even with our regrets, it keeps us from traveling into our future

Bright blessings ~ Richard.
ps… lousy interview :(

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angiefan319 1 #
Pensacola, FL, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (8 minutes after post)

I kinda felt that way about my ex. You shouldn’t regret it. Look at it as a learning experience and move on. Best of luck to you.

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~LazyDaze~ 322 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Yay, your over him, sometimes it is gradual and sometimes it seems like someone suddenly flipped a switch :D
I am glad you realise your worth, now you can more on and be who you want to be although I am sorry you had to go through all this and took the time toget over him but your there so yay for you :)

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Anonymous #
1 year, 2 months ago (50 minutes after post)

No regrets…this experience has only made you stronger and wiser for the next relationship. happy that you’ve found wholeness and healing in this process

tricky 66 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (54 minutes after post)

what’s done is done you cant change the past with all the years of stupidity but hek you can make sure that it wont happen again at least , no regrets of the past girl , we learn from our mistakes and am so happy to know you did that… so time has come now to live ur head up high and rule ur world with an iron fist… we all deserve somebody that respects us and gives us love as much we give them…

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velvettundr 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (57 minutes after post)

good!!! :]

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happitoday 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 52 minutes after post)

I’m glad for the life experience, but i reget wasting my time with such a loser, but i did leaen a LOT, about love, and relatioships… I also reget the way I acted, I wish the switch would have turned on earily, but I have a HUBBLE heart and I’m not mad anymore, just happy with what I have and what I will have and I’m happy with me now… LIFE is funny, with its ups and downs, but its like school we all learn something everyday from SOOO many people…. But the truth and was with in me I just didn’t wanta see or hear it… But NOW watch out because Christina Ann is BACK !!!! Hugs and kisses to you all
thanks

IRON FIST you got it, I’m BACK, BETTER then EVER!!! H&K

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Anonymous #
1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 29 minutes after post)

Been married over 20 years and yes this happened to my marraige I was the one that did the deed and btw once a cheater not always a cheater and a lier. THe grass always seems greener and my wife forgave me and we are healing I know I’ve lost trust and may never fully get it back but forgiveness is a powerful thing. My advice to anyone now is to never go there you think you may be happy but in reality its death. I found life through my wife’s forgiveness. Don’t eat that bitter pill. God’s love surpasses all understanding and my life with my wife is proof.

I told my wife the other day that I want to make the next 20 years far better than the first.

tricky 66 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 34 minutes after post)

am soooo happy to see somebody come out of darkness and into the light :)

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Captain K 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 36 minutes after post)

thanks tricky

happitoday 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (7 hours, 39 minutes after post)

to anony I’m happy for you and your wifes forgiveness…. in my case this “thing” has cheated on both of his wives and then me and on the new girl too…. things happen, and the grass may seem greener, but I was in the WRONG, for sleeping with a married man….i have asked forgiveness and have learned a VERY GOOD lession in life that I will NEVER forget….
for now its all about me… and I don’t need a man, but my god to love and accept me for who i am…
I’m very very happy for you anony…. love is a hard thing sometimes…

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tricky 66 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (12 hours, 50 minutes after post)

God loves you and accepted you with all ur imperfection for He created us that way :)

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tricky 66 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (13 hours, 6 minutes after post)

Gumby wrote:
thanks tricky

ur most welcome ^_^

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