school help: Hi I am a single mother of 2 children one is a senior in high school the other one is going to be 2 in november. - Help.com

Hi I am a single mother of 2 children one is a senior in high school the other one is going to be 2 in november.

I am in the middle of a divorce and just found all theese bills that were not paid. Does anyone know how i can get help paying my car registration and the penalty for not having insurance. I was married for 2 years and he decided that he did not want to work and would not get a job after my second son was born. So as a good mother I had to go back to work and support everybody so that we would have insurance and an income. When he finally decided to go back to work after I paid for him to go back to school he decided to cheat with my money and leave stgicking me with all kinds of bills. I was wondering if there are orginizations or people that can help me out of the whole that I am in. I have all these things for my older son that I need to do like senior pictures and his contacts and so on his father does not help me out at all I have a judgment on him for 84 dollars a month because he is a person that does not want to work and that is what the state of california awarded me after they take there cut for his second child that is on welfare they take 284 and I get 84 thank you California. Have not seen a penny of that at all please help!!!!!!!!

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Hi Celena, well first of all I want to congratulate you on choosing to get a divorce. Your ex husband (can’t call him a father to your children although biologically he is but in reality no) sounds like a complete jerk! Maybe he was clever enough to think ahead and put all the bills in your name in which case I could call him worse things. If so, then I guess you might have to pay them. However by law (at least in England where I’m from) you could get a solicitor via legal aid or it might be called “bona fide” in the states but not sure meaning free due to your status. He should be paying maintenance anyway to the kids regardless of whether he spends time with them or not. Also if the bills are in his name or joint name / account then don’t bother paying them. Tell him to get his act together and be firm and strong but not aggressive with this jerk and say to pay up or else!! Don’t make out to him you’re broke, weak or anything or he’ll use the kids or some way of controlling that situation and making excuses. Judging by what you have told me above, you are a great mother, doing the best you can for your kids. Remember though, the kids could be hurting too so be there for them too but don’t go back to that jerk or accept excuses.

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