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I am still feeling …

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like every girl i meet is a s l u t, those who arnt are not interested or if they are i dont realise it and its to late. im feeling like the people who want relationships at 21 dont exist anymore and anyone who does dont make enough moves for me to realise (i dont think im blind to it, maybe cautious). but why is it that no one is interested in a relationship at the moment. is this a general thing or am i just meeting the wrong people?

in adition - im a pretty nice guy, i go clubbing and have a laugh, good sence of humour, smart, enjoys the nice moments like chilling and watching a film in each others arms, i pride myself on making a girl feel special or safe and making romantic guestures. maybe the answer is in the detail of who i am but im still interested to know if all relationships have gone out the window at this age…. ahh it would be nice to know

cheers

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

where do you meet most of them?

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littlenick 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

You’re a rare breed, my friend. If you are patient you will find your girl that you are looking for. She’s out there. You just have be patient!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (19 minutes after post)

Wow. Well if this was a few decades ago those same women would be married and have two kids. When I was 21 i was in school and had indeed met the man i would end up with, but to be honest I was not ready at that time and I did push away for a few years before I hit that “a ha” moment and really dedicated myself; you need to meet the right woman, she is out there, either you are not noticing her or something else is not working because there are always guys and girls out there who really do want someone important in their lives.

Stay away from the stereotypes. When looking at that age group… i would probably be a bit picky.. only because.. so many people at that age are still flexing their freedom muscles and are not wanting to settle for something serious. But there are some…who mentally and emotionally are older than their age bracket and are probably more along the lines of what you are looking for…they may be tough to find, but they are out there..probably sitting home alone watching a movie on friday night, which is why the search is so difficult. :)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (20 minutes after post)

2511 - i meet them all over uni, pubs, clubs, mainly in bournemouth which is the LA of the UK (so that might be part of it) or swindon which is a place i thought was covered in little jems. it just seems the good soals end up disrespecting themselves. like today it has some sort of benafit in it.

Little Nick - your right i should be patient ……there are reasons why i may not be (early loss of a mother maybe) but im aware of these and dont let it take control. im interested in y u say i am a rare breed tho….

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (29 minutes after post)

mmm…
What about older women (you know, less slutty lol) ?
Also, acting fast could work…

Don’t worry about age…that isn’t an issue till you’re 50

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (31 minutes after post)

All the guys nowadays just one thing from girls. They just want to get them in the sack and forget about them. Guys like you who actually want to have a relationship with a girl and make her feel like a million bucks are hard to find and keep. Most of the guys are just selfish and egotistical and aholes all around. When you least expect it you will find that one girl for you. Don’t rush it! If you rush, you are going to meet that one girl whom you may think is a keeper and she’s going to turn out to be the maneater of the century and you might end up getting stuck with her. Easy does it!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (33 minutes after post)

The sex might be great. The way it feels on the flesh is out of this world but that does not last. Most relationships that are built on that end up crumbling and becoming dust. You will be that diamond in the rough that every girl wants and hopes for. Be patient!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (10 hours, 8 minutes after post)

hehe this is sweet. i think ive got an idea of whats going on then. id like to make it clear tho that after a summer of having, i guess, a bit of a slutty moment myself, i realised i find it hard to simply have one night stands (thought i might as well give it a shot) but they arnt what im looking for. so although im looking for relationships, im not actually looking for the “one” as fast as possible but i am looking for those moments that no one seem to hold dear anymore. or maybe im just meeting arrogant people who think they can pull anyone they want (and thats not the point)

i expect to have more than one relationship in the near future n not get cought up in the ‘one’ bussiness but i just wondered if they were concidered non existant at my age or something.

thank you tho. if anyone else wants to add anything then it will be apreciated.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (10 hours, 9 minutes after post)

and thats for the nice things said

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I am feeling …….

like every girl i meet is a s l u t, those who arnt are not interested or if they are i dont realise it and its to late. im feeling like the people who want relationships at 21 dont exist anymore and anyone who does dont make enough moves for me to realise (i dont think im blind to it, maybe cautious). but why is it that no one is interested in a relationship at the moment. is this a general thing or am i just meeting the wrong people?

in adition - im a pretty nice guy, i go clubbing and have a laugh, good sence of humour, smart, enjoys the nice moments like chilling and watching a film in each others arms, i pride myself on making a girl feel special or safe and making romantic guestures. maybe the answer is in the detail of who i am but im still interested to know if all relationships have gone out the window at this age…. ahh it would be nice to know

cheers

xx

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