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I’m not sure what to tell you. That’s a lot of worry.

I think maybe take them one at a time, beginning with the ones which trouble you the most.
The one which I think should be up there is contacting your sister. Tell her you were selfish and hurt from her previous condition and would she forgive you.
Maybe she would then be someone for you to talk to. I think she’s trying to rebuild bridges she burned while in trouble.

I’m sure things will work out for you, but right now it is just so overwhelming.

wow, that is quite a few troublesome things, i may have missed it, but have you tried a psychiatrist?

I would suggest letting the ex act like an *** and let her show her true colors. Tell ur boyfriend to keep anll texts from her, they can be gotten anyways with a court order, all the way back to 5 years anyways. If he has visitation, stick to the schedual, if she refuses to allow the visit, call the police and have them witness the refusal( they cant take her to jail, but they can tell the judge, that she furused the visit. I would give her enough rope to hang herself with, dont add to the insanity. The judges are not stupid, they will dee threw a bad mother. But dont get ur hopes up on sole custody of the child, courts want both parents to have equal control and custody. But if it cant be done by both parents acting civil, then just dont add to the fire. I would not have stopped eeing you though. Dont let her threaten, if its on aa text, show a judge

i recommend seeing a councelor. when you get to school, they should have free services for you. i understand cutting your sister off. sometimes we need to take time to focus on ourselves otherwise we can waste away until theres nothing left for our loved ones. I definitely recommend trying to gradually bring yourself closer to people who are in healthy situations. Its tempting sometimes to get close to other good people who have a problems, but sometimes it just becomes this depressive cycle and you need to work your way towards a healthier environment. with this boyfiend, give him the space he needs to keep his child. if its meant to be, a little distance is insignificant. besides its always harder to see someone you love leave you for someone else. maybe thats why the mother is getting so clingy.

Wow…Everything you’re going through…is everything I have been through. I can talk to you if you want just email me! it’s hard to go through things like this, my father is mentally and physically disabled and used to be drunk all the time, then he stopped drinking and we still aren’t as close..it’s hard to go through something like that especially when you think you are alone, but you aren’t!