Love help: This is bad.

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This is bad.

A new man has just entered my life. He’s everything I have ever wanted. He’s a sweet, funny, charming, clever, and far too handsome psychology major from France. However, I have a boyfriend of two years who has always treated me well and is very kind. My boyfriend is a poor, hard-working country boy who (surprisingly) isn’t that great in bed. The psych major is rich and well-educated. This is a real fork in the road.

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ifeel 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (13 minutes after post)

re-evaluate your relationship with your boyfriend. if you’re happy with him and you love him, you are meant to stay with him… however, if there’s a doubt in your mind that you don’t love him… you should break it off with him. it’s not fair for him to be in a relationship where his partner (you) doesn’t love him and isnt’ giving herself fully to the relationship…

spiratec9 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 1 month ago (59 minutes after post)

think soul mate.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

Just because this new guy is funny, charming, rich, ect. doesn’t mean he will be there for you. Your boyfriend is hard working (which should show you he does what he has to in order to pay the bills) and he’s been with you for 2 years. That should show you he’s loyal and will be there in the long run.

I think you should stick with the boyfriend.

Also, if your boyfriend isn’t good in the sack, why don’t you change that? Seriously read some Cosmo magazines and get some ideas. :) Maybe he just needs a little direction, lol.

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Coalesce 31 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 hours, 54 minutes after post)

If it weren’t for the whole new guy thing I’d absolutely advise that if you feel that way about your current BF that you end the relationship… but cut&run over a new guy that just appeared? Meh, I dunno… it just seems in poor taste.

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seah1 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 day, 13 hours after post)

Too bad too know that you have gone to bed with him…….well….you are not married with him yet so you are still free. Tho it will hurt your boyfriend, breaking up the relationship will be a lot better than both of you will suffer much later.

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mar98 7 #
Dracut, MA, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

You should break up with him. It sounds like you’re ready for a change.

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