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i really have a low self esteem no confidence in myself

but i feel i can offer somthing different to a girl that’s positive,i enjoy the simple things in life,i enjoy art(graffiti),ima nerd and i enjoy reading comic books,i guess what im trying to say is i dont think most women would understand me and probably think im weird or young even tho im 20 years old.how do i get over the fear?how do i get confidence in myself

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Spangle offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (5 hours, 22 minutes after post)

Hey g212. So you enjoy art hey?.. well so do I. Never done graffiti though and wouldn’t draw on peoples houses etc. as looks messy but murials on walls etc. yeah that’s cool I guess. Also the simple things in life… couldn’t agree more. I guess maybe I’m a nerd too in that case! :-) Do you have many friends who are into art / comic books? I think it’s kinda cool anyhow so don’t freak out about it and hey, there are similar people out there for sure as I am one of them. What comic books are you into?

Spangle :-)

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g212 offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (9 hours after post)

im into iron man/avengers mostly and real graffiti writers don’t write on houses and such.i waz hella into the spawn series when it was still around.but mostly im into all forms of art and graffiti helped me see that

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Help me with: a realization has been hitting me these last couple of weeks i think i realize why i tend to get heartbroken,in my past relationships
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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (1 day, 10 hours after post)

Hi….I don’t know your situations why you have low-self esteem. Maybe because of your past? If it was….forget…all about that. Your achievements? No achievements at all? Give yourself a chance. Just think of the many people who had success but were not happy. Get to know God…..Get to know Jesus….Read the Bible!

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Spangle offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (2 days, 8 hours after post)

Bible is full of contradictions and although I believe in a higher being and the teachings of Jesus, some of the stuff in there is not true or misunderstood.

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Spangle offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (2 days, 8 hours after post)

For example though shall not murder…. but witches and indians have been killed… thus contradictory to the “thou’ should not murder” clause.

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Spangle offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (2 days, 8 hours after post)

Anyway going back to the topic. Well I like Japanese amination and yeah love Iron Man and The Hulk and things like that, especially some of the series made afterward.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (2 days, 13 hours after post)

yea japanese anime is awsome love akira and ghost in the shell but iron man is my life hahaha oh as far as graffiti goes yea i know something’s about the culture of it u might not agree with but not all graff writerz tag houses and ish we have set of rules that we follow only real writers do that other than that i cant speak on the other toys going around just destroying ish.

and seah i read the bible the king james to be exact and i agree with spangle just some things that are misplaced im heavily into sciene,astronomy and such so yea while i do believe in a god i really dot believe in a religion

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Help me with: a realization has been hitting me these last couple of weeks i think i realize why i tend to get heartbroken,in my past relationships
Introspectivus offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (5 days, 19 hours after post)

it sounds like you have a lot going for you. Just keep trying hard at art, maybe branch out a little bit, try some different forms of art like drawing or painting and you’ll gain that little bit of extra confidence you want.

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