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Need help…

There’s this girl in one of my classes, and unfortunately I’m pretty shy (I don’t want to be, but I can’t get over it…) We talk sometimes, at least, but we don’t know eachother THAT well. Another problem is, she’s pretty shy as well… I’m not sure if I should ask her out yet, considering we don’t know eachother that well, though. And if i did, how should I bring it up?

Thanks. I suck with this kind of stuff.

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Wannabe. 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (8 minutes after post)

First thought: Aw!
Second though: Still AW!

Kay. I don’t suggest you ask her out yet. Get to know her, maybe? Talk to her a bit more often. I know you said you’re shy but try to pick a topic that you know she can’t give a one-sentance answer to.
Do you know any of her interests or hobbies? Music, books, films? Anything will do. Once you are more comfortable with talking to her and she with you then go for it.
;]

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LiL EmO 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (10 minutes after post)

get to know her more and make good friends with her and wait for a good time to ask her out

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emma aka jav 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (11 minutes after post)

ask her out..have a rockin time..life jus cant wait!
tats if ur heart really feels like it..

Help me with: i need smeone to talk to ..

josh22 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (20 minutes after post)

thanks for the help. another problem is that homecoming is coming up, and someone else might ask her to that…. :/

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (22 minutes after post)

josh22 wrote:
thanks for the help. another problem is that homecoming is coming up, and someone else might ask her to that…. :/

When you say “coming up”, how long?

Help me with: I’ve written a letter, asking a firm for work experience, does it sound okay?

josh22 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (23 minutes after post)

3-4 weeks-ish

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (24 minutes after post)

josh22 wrote:
3-4 weeks-ish

Thats an okay amount of time.
Enough time to get to know her AND ask her out.
Go for it!

Help me with: I’ve written a letter, asking a firm for work experience, does it sound okay?

emma aka jav 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (26 minutes after post)

mmmaaan go for it! trust me.. u r gona feel a lot bttr once u hv asked.. ! dot worry too much abt what she d say..cos theres nothng u cn do abt it!

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