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because peopole can act anyway they like in free societies… Its not fair but its a reality..The reason he is more into the other girls is because….well only he knows…………Improve yourself and to hell with him

why dont you ask him,its the only way to find out :)

nah, get yourself the things you want and forget the things or people you dont need…

how do you feel about him being gay?
you ok with it?
sometimes gays can feel like your a bit homophobic.

Not everyone can be a Hollywood starlet… or super-model… but trust me, some of these women as soon as they open their mouth, they show themselves to far uglier than we see on the outside. To answer your question, yes. A persons appearance has a huge impact on how you are perceived by others. That is where the expression, “dress for success” comes from. First impressions are very important, and most of those are formulated on look. It is quite well known that the “good looking” people even get the job before the over-weight man or woman… or the short man, or homely woman. It is a shameful Western perceptive (maybe world wide I dunno).

But here’s the deal. If you say you are ugly, then I guarantee you… you will be ugly. You should NEVER say that of yourself. Take the time and effort on yourself, so that you can feel good about yourself. You can be beautiful.
Bright blessings ~ Richard

evansent2008 wrote:
how do you feel about him being gay?
you ok with it?
sometimes gays can feel like your a bit homophobic.

Im fine with it :)
In fact, I love the fact that hes gay. I love having a gay friend.
Iven ever done anything but tell him how nice I think he is.

just ask him! tats d only way u can get outa tis pseudo thng tat hurts ya..
dont let anyone hurt u n get away with jus like that..

yea never say your ugly….how would your future husband feel that he married an ugly girl

ok instead of asking him why,tell him instead
tell him you feel neglected by him.:)

aeolian mode wrote:
yea never say your ugly….how would your future husband feel that he married an ugly girl

wel in tat case i hv let my bf down..i did tell him more than once tat i think i m ugly.. er.. he mus b feelin real bad thn.. n v r getting married..er..so wat do i do ?

its not always about looks and by the sounds of things he cant be that interested in the others just because of their looks, really can he? some people just click more than others, that is life! shallow people maybe but who cares about them?!

whats he act like when hes with one of the other girls?

That boy’s a loser. Just don’t mind him and if you think the situation is getting worse(if he treats you more crappily), just go for it and punch him in the face. Some might say physical would not solve anything, but in my case, I would not wait until he spills out the excuse.

Just correcting my reply because I re-read it, realised it sounded wrong and that I missed a bit off:

Anon, I have a gay friend and I meant that I love the fact that hes gay. Ive never done anything but tell him how nice I think he is. At first he was wary of me (he thought I was judgemental)then he got to know me and were absoloutely fine now. In fact, were really close!
This lad may just need to get to know you first too!! However, if you think you may have done something to offend him before (maybe about his sexuality) then try to put it right with him.

Hope it helps :)

Hey all :)
Thanks so much for the replies!
This week has been a LOT better! Hes been talking to me more, weve been having a real good laugh and he hugs a lot now. I think he did just need a bit of time to get used to me, thats all :)
I think he is used to me now and everything is fine!!

Thanks all for the help :)

xx