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Tzubake

Oh my God, that’s all I have to say.

So I just got off the phone for about 4 hours of running around. Apparently a girl I met her name was Saranya in the internship I was at this summer has a friend who’s roommate said she is dating the same guy that my former girlfriend is dating. So apparently he is cheating on my former girlfriend and he has all the while. He’s also been cheating on this girl, who’s name is Lindsay, with my former girlfriend. They’ve been together since October of last year.

In any case, we had a four way conversation on the phone between him, me, Lindsay and Brittany. He played stupid, saying he doesn’t know anything about anything and really doesn’t know where any of this is coming from. Brittany also said “I don’t know who any of you are.” I don’t know why she would cover for this guy unless she knows he’s with her and he’s trying to break up with her for Brittany. Then again, she told me when she was coming clean with me when we were in Disney this summer that he had broken up with his girlfriend, so someone is lying. A lot of people are lying actually.

Everyone’s playing dumb. Of course Adel, this guys name, doesn’t want to be caught nor does he want to be in the wrong, but what concerns me is that Brittany played stupid also. Honestly I don’t know how to feel about the entire situation, I’m sort of tired of all the high school drama. All I have to say is karma is a b word.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

Why is any of this your problem/concern?

Setto? 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

Yeah I don’t get why you’re so involved?

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Winter Rose 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

Are you just concerned for your ex’s wellbeing? Are you two still friend’s? That’s great if you’re just looking out for her.

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Tzubake 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

Well that’s the thing. It’s not my problem. I was called by my friend that I met because she wanted to make sure it was the same Adel, and it was and then Lindsay called me to find out what the story was.

The only thing I’m worried about is I don’t want Brittany to be hurt I guess because I know how it feels, I guess subliminally I’m looking out for her, but the thing is she’s never going to believe me, nor is this guy ever going to tell her the truth so there’s nothing anything anyone could do about this.

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Tzubake 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

I’m basically playing the informant, letting Lindsay know what he’s been up to because she doesn’t know.

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Richard Cor de Lyon 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (26 minutes after post)

Subliminally? Dude you are point blank looking out for the woman that DUMPED YOU for another guy. Look… I get it. You’re a nice guy. Ya know what… so am I (really) but you and I gotta learn our lesson sometime! Don’t FORGET, but move ON. Don’t play all these high school games. Let them all suck each other into the pit. Man you are TOO GOOD for that crap. 3 months is a long time Tzubake. That’s a quarter of an entire year you’ve been bummed out over this. It’s time to start moving in a way that you need to be moving. First move. Drop the ex.
~Richard

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Tzubake 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (48 minutes after post)

Haha yeah I know, I just think the entire situation is pretty ridiculous. All I know is I’m going to get the first good night sleep in a while, while two people are going to be tossing and turning under their guilt :)

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littlenick 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (12 hours, 27 minutes after post)

I think you should wash of this entire mess and leave well enough alone. If and when they ask you to get involved, just say “sorry, this mess is none of my business.” Your gratuitous involvement will be looked at with a smirk and a sneer by all the other parties involved. Stay out of it. Don’t open yourself to ridicule and mocking by any of those people! That includes your ex. She’s in the place where she deserves to be. You will get all the good things that you want and in the end will be happy again. Don’t even think about your ex again or even contemplate getting together with her not even for simple “hello.” If and when you see her, just say “hi and bye.” That should be enough of a clue for her that you are not nor will ever be interested in her again. Stay away from her!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (14 hours, 8 minutes after post)

So… She broke up with you for him, and the effer’s been cheating on her the entire time?… But she covers for him?…

Dude, this is way beneath you. Like everyone said, just wash your hands of it. If she’s gonna get hurt, she’s gonna get hurt. Her problem, her mistake.

Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (6 days, 15 hours after post)

Karma baby.

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