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oh yeah! this is normal…. the honeymoon fades every time. :) the feelings ride this big wave of emotion and then it settles… and it is your job then to stir the waters again. you have to plan things, and start loving the way they read the newspaper, the feelings come back but you can’t just expect them to. you have to remember why you love them, and then you will see why and they will come back.

:) if you are not in love anymore … then there may be more to it. otherwise just remember what it is you love in them and look for it… and tell them when you see it.

-s

All I can think of is to just enjoy every moment that you two have together. On the weekends you two should work out some of your future plans together. After you two finish taking care of your work and business, you need some kind of plan to stick with each other, so you both should work on that.

Thank you, sahara and Neutra.

unnn so it happens to many couples. *My last serious bf was 2 years ago,,, so I kinda forgot how it worked… >

You guys are right. “I” should not forget how I used to feel about him before. can’t expect him to do the same but , yeah, it will come back. I worry and worry and can’t enjoy the present. huh. I will take your advice and try to talk about future plan with him coz I have my dream and can’t stay in this country if I follow my dream… !!!

thanks again!!!

where are you from if you don’t mind me asking?

:)

s

im from japan but now i live in other country in Asia!!!

that’s wonderful. :)

well achieve your dream! its all you’ve got.

and if someone will take the ride with you then even better!

love isn’t always easy - but usually worth it.

take care. enjoy everyday.

-s

For my fiance and I ..It was getting sort of like this.
We’ve been together since we were kids, and eventually we just sort of became that “old boring couple”. We had stopped going out and having fun and instead just stayed inside to watch movies and spend time together.

For us, we just started getting doing things and getting out again. We don’t do this constantly because then it wouldn’t seem as fun ..but when we were kids we used to always go to the movie theatre together. Well, we started doing that every once in awhile now and it seems to rekindle those old feelings.

We also went to an amusement park in August. We’d never went together before and it was such a blast! He had a slight fear of heights and I had one of roller coasters, but we both faced these fears together and I think it actually made us closer.

So, just try new things together, be exciting and spontaneous and most of all, have fun! :)