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Setto? invited 18 users to read this post 1 year, 1 month ago.

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apples 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

(: I am happy for you. I too came to that point in my life where I stopped and thought “Why should I cry and care for those who do not cry and care for me?” . Now I am the real me. and you sweety, are the real you. Congratulations ( L )

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DrinkAwayMyPain 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (42 minutes after post)

what a good way of looking

Help me with: why does my comp run slow i reboobted it yesterday to get all the viruses off so wat do i do now?

-Frit- 59 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (57 minutes after post)

go for it man, you need to live your life for you, not for anyone else!

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fletcher 1 #
AU | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

Woooo yeah!!

Ima fly there sometime and we’re getting pissed.

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Setto? 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

fletcher wrote:
Woooo yeah!!

Ima fly there sometime and we’re getting pissed.

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-Frit- 59 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

lol, can i come? :P

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Commander Ikari 226 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 hours, 39 minutes after post)

So, will you tell people asking you favors to **** off right in their face?

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Marylou 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 hours, 58 minutes after post)

:) Well I encourage you to do so, Setto!
Take care of you. Give yourself what you need, first of all.
That’s the right attitude. Find the true you and fulfill yourself! Yay!

One day, it’ll all balance itself out. I’m not worried about that one bit.
This is just how you have to be, right now. So go for it! :):)

Times' gone mad 6 #
Silver Spring, MD, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 hours, 21 minutes after post)

Congrats on your decision. Sometimes you have to refocus yourself in order to get to a place where you can help others.

It’s like Autumn—plants go to sleep…rest and come back. :P

Help me with: So, sometimes I annoy my Fiance, and sometimes he annoys me…either way, there are so many reasons I love him.

2greeneyes 3 #
Midvale, UT, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 hours, 20 minutes after post)

Gosh,
Right the he** on! I am there too. Seems like everything I look at is speaking my feelings. It is so releasing isn’t it? I so hear you and am glad your feeling it too. I however am not being a *****, just assertive and decisive and turning people and responsabilities back to others that have found it easier to expect or ask me under the guise “you do it so much better, or just dang expecting it. Screw that! :)

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Marylou 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 hours, 23 minutes after post)

Way to go, GreenEyes! I love your attitude! LOL :)

Setto? edited this post 1 year, 1 month ago. Read the previous text »

RAAAAAAAAAAARGH. Witness, ladies and gentlemen. This is the big push, in the direction of where I want to go instead of where everyone is pushing me! I am very happy I have come to this decision. Basically, from now on, it is ME that is deciding what I do. I have, for a very long time cared a lot more about other people than I have about myself. HOWEVER, it has only brought me bad things and got me walked all over like a doormat. SO NOW, I say, **** you. Everybody that wants to get me to do things for them, answer is no. It is out of order. It is unreasonable. I care not. For a while, at least, I’m going to be an @sshole. Have that.
And all the things I just don’t say, because i don’t like to upset people, I will now say. All the stuff that should have been done but was not for other’s sake (those who did not deserve it, too) will be done now. I’m detatched enough from real life now to just tell it to go away.
Thankyou, and goodnight.

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Commander Ikari 226 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (14 hours, 29 minutes after post)

Well…. Was this a long time in coming?

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Setto? 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (14 hours, 30 minutes after post)

Maybe, maybe not. Always was a strange relationship to be honest.

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Commander Ikari 226 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (14 hours, 31 minutes after post)

53770 wrote:
Maybe, maybe not. Always was a strange relationship to be honest.

What’s done is done. Now what?

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Setto? 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (14 hours, 32 minutes after post)

Well the next part is well under way anyways, getting rid of the rest of the people that are a bad input on my life.

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Commander Ikari 226 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (14 hours, 33 minutes after post)

So, how do you cut the ties? Call them and say your never going to talk to them again, or what?

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Setto? 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (14 hours, 34 minutes after post)

Depends who it is, some people it needs a talk face to face and get things sorted out. Some people just need to be told I never want to speak to them again.

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Commander Ikari 226 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (14 hours, 38 minutes after post)

Well. Reminds me off a story. My house has trees that had flowers growing on them, but there were always annoying little flies around them. Eventually, they covered the undersides of all the trees leaves with what we assume were their eggs, a cottony little coating. The trees suffered, and eventually, we cut off all the side branches, completely removed all the flowers and cottony leaves. It was bare and ugly, but it no long was plagued by the flies, or the cottony leaves…

The trees look great now.

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Marylou 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (17 hours, 22 minutes after post)

Nice comparison, Commander.
Sometimes you need to do this before you can start anew. Just the cycles of life, I guess. Sometimes it’s for the best…

hotchic 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 week after post)

Man, I am thrilled for you. It can be a ruff transition but GO FOR IT!!!
I am 3 months in to this process myself & though it messes with my head from time to time, I’m digging it.
Seriously thrilled, dude!

Help me with: Trying to kick my people addiction.

Setto? edited this post 1 year, 1 month ago. Read the previous text »

RAAAAAAAAAAARGH. Witness, ladies and gentlemen. This is the big push, in the direction of where I want to go instead of where everyone is pushing me! I am very happy I have come to this decision. Basically, from now on, it is ME that is deciding what I do. I have, for a very long time cared a lot more about other people than I have about myself. HOWEVER, it has only brought me bad things and got me walked all over like a doormat. SO NOW, I say, **** you. Everybody that wants to get me to do things for them, answer is no. It is out of order. It is unreasonable. I care not. For a while, at least, I’m going to be an @sshole. Have that.
And all the things I just don’t say, because i don’t like to upset people, I will now say. All the stuff that should have been done but was not for other’s sake (those who did not deserve it, too) will be done now. I’m detatched enough from real life now to just tell it to go away.
Thankyou, and goodnight.

EDIT: Oh wow just split up with my girlfriend too, after 2 and a half years. That’s phase one done, I suppose.

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