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so i went to see if my fiance needed a ride the other night and she wouldn’t let me in the house and i could hear people inside…

.i asked her to please let me come in sit down and talk and she continually refused…after that she started yelling at me for no reason and calling me fat and ugly and telling me she hated me and never loved me…we had been together a year and a half up to that point and now i am so severly depressed i do not know what to do…i thought about just ending it but havent worked up the courage yet….i cant eat or sleep now…all i do is think about her and how much my heart hurts now…i never did anything to prompt her to act this way in the entirety of our relationship….i know that if i do not do something before long that im am going to break down completely and either have a mental collapse or just go stand in front of a train….but i really need help(my girl back)i dont know what to do

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arz_zan offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

first, talk to her… ask her who were those people inside in front of whom she seemed to act so defensively… see what comes of the talk… best of luck buddy.. *HUGS*:(

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theresape offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Waltham, MA, US | 3 months, 1 week ago (31 minutes after post)

First of all, she sounds like she might have been impaired or even psychotic. Drugs?

Second, she sounds like she is not a nice person AND does not respect you, to put it very mildly.

Third, when you say “just ending it,” I HOPE you are talking about the engagement. Do it.

Fourth, if by any chance when you talked about “just ending it” you meant your LIFE, forget it. She is not worth it. No one is.

End this bad relationship, take some time off, then seek new connections with people who are more respectful, nicer, and more in control of their behavior. Be with people who build you up, not people who drag you down.

Dump the b**ch.

Good luck.

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