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how can i get over my ex…

? we were together almost 5 yrs…

i love this girl to death and anything i see or do reminds me of her, i always compare things happening or i see to her, good and bad things. we’ve been broken up for a little over 2 months now, ive been seeing other women, but nothing helps…

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BadInfluence23 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 48 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

Everythin will heal in time, you need to meet someone equal or more awesome then her lol… if your not searchin then single life isn’t soo bad, gotta make the best of things, get out, go visit friends…

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (21 minutes after post)

You seem to be paying too much attention to things you did with her.
Try paying more attention to things you did without her.
It’s all in the mind. Make a conscious effort and you can do it.

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Fritwell, K2, GB | 1 year, 1 month ago (55 minutes after post)

Try not to thin about the past or the future. Just take the days one at a time and concertrate on them Slowly you will start to feel better, try to surround yourself with friends and/or family.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

another person cant heal you only you can heal you. i spent months and months trying to forget in the arms of other men but it didnt make me feel any better. until youre completely over your ex you wont enjoy being with other women. you will though, trust me, but its very early days. try not to dwell too much on the past and imagine yourself in a bright and happy future.

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stuck offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 hours, 14 minutes after post)

just take time it will come and when u start thinking these good thoughts think ov something you did not like there is a reason why it ended i know trust me but that reason often gets lost when u love someone and all u can think is about how much you wanted them

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 hours, 5 minutes after post)

I once had an ex who I kept getting back with, so I know it’s never a good idea to
get back together. An ex is an ex for a reason.
And yes, I had very strong feelings for her too.
We finally unspokenly & simultaneously decided to never see each other again.
One year latter I buried everything that was a reminder of her, gifts, photos, etc.
The symbolic funeral of all that reminded me of her helped. Her face is now a
very blurry image in my mind, and her voice is now muffled noise. All that’s
left of her for me is a vague ghost in my head.

I guess we all have our ways of moving on. For your well being I hope you find yours.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 months, 3 weeks after post)

Well if you guys broke up for a stupid reason, tell her the way you feel cause when a boy opens up to me and tells me the truth then I think it’s cute and fall in love with them all over again.
I have the same problem and people told him that I was obsessed with him and he seriously was all I thought about.. and one day he called
me and told me that he felt the same way.
This just happened today and so far were friends *knock on wood*.. getting closer.. pushing our problems away. But..
I guess I’ll never know if theres anyone out there for me because I like him so much but who knows.
Somtimes we just gotta leave it in God’s hands ;*

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