girl help: There’s this girl on my bus that I like. - Help.com

Have you ever jumped off the high-dive? It looks a lot worse when you are up there because from your perspective, you see all the way down to the bottom of the pool, and completely miss the water to catch you halfway down. Your situation is kinda like this - your fear is based off of a poor perspective. Be confident and say hi, compliment her, and ask her if she’d like to spend some time together. There is nothing to be afraid of.

Ok, that’s the exact reaction I would have when I was the age of riding on busses. What’s your fear?

Ok; “that she’ll start avoiding me” is a valid fear. I think it’s rather unlikely, but you can never tell. Here’s the thing: If you do nothing, you will regret it; if you do something and it doesn’t work out, sure, it will be weird, but that’s life. Don’t let fear get in your way. Regret is the worst thing, trust me, I’m 26 and am saddled with about 16 years of regret about these things.

You are young? right? Take the chance, and learn from it. This is your opportunity. There will be many, many more opportunities - but you need to learn early. Also, chances are good that it will turn out well.

I wish I had someone to give me that advice when I was young… but the internet wasn’t around back then.

littlenick is being a little silly, but his/her message is on the spot: don’t take things so seriously.

What exactly are you going to ask her?

Ok, that’s a good start. Here’s a few pointers: Be direct with your question, don’t leave it open-ended with “or something sometime”. Put a distinct event into her mind that sounds good, like “Would you like to go to Nick and Norah’s Infinite Playlist, on Saturday?” This is better than a vague question, and puts a good picture into her mind.

Just take the chance to ask her out if you like her that much then it is worth a try and if she is your best friend like you say she is then she wont say no and if she does life goes on get over it and move on to another girl = ]

Oh and to that phone or public?

ohh sorry, I was distracted by my roommates

I say phone because if you get slammed then no body will ever know

do it in person, definitely. Not over the phone. Be direct, and confident.

No, not phone. Trust me… this isn’t a risk management game. You put your full game forward in every instance, and be rewarded for it. If you lose, pick yourself up and learn from it.

Ok thanks later
But if smarty here want you to do so in public be my guest = ]
Because when you get slammed in front of everyone then you cant say that i didnt tell you so
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Is nuejersey a boy or girl

boy

HAHA SWEET BOY = ]

GIRL

iugfde, how old?

15