friends help: I did something really bad which lead me to find out something quite upseting. - Help.com

Um what ur friends did is kinda f.u.c.k.e.d in the head

Your friends aren’t being honest. It is wrong of you to go through your friends personal notes online like that, but now that you know the truth, it’s probably going to stay on your mind. If you ask them about it, they are going to wonder how you found out about this and then if you tell them, they will be mad. Either you forget that you went through the mail and move on, or you find better friends.

I did something like that once and it was really dumb. I didn’t hack it, it was already open and I found out my gf was cheating on me through it but i didn’t know how to confront her without telling her how i found out. It was good to know i guess. To me if your friends arent gonna show u respect in a stupid way like that then u should headbutt them in the ovaries!!!! bam! Here’s an imaginary headbutt to yo baby makas!!!! lol just kidding but seriously….

I think your friends sound a bit strange!!!! I guess you don’t normally hack into peoples’ private stuff??? I wonder if you did because you suspected that something didn’t ring true. My advice is to not get too fixated on this … maybe try and develop a wider circle of (real!)friends and then what these friends do will not be so important. The greatest goal in life is happiness :-) good luck

it’s hard when you know something you don’t like.
I hope they are not ur only friends

No. I don’t normally do stuff like this. I always had a weird feeling when I was with them like there was something they were hiding. I guess I’ll spend more time with my more honest friends.

Why would you let them get awawy with that! I say you tell them you found out about “Flo” from an insie source, and tell them that if they aren’t going to be honest to you, then just stay out of your life. See what they say. ;)

*Bellatrix* wrote:
Why would you let them get awawy with that! I say you tell them you found out about “Flo” from an insie source, and tell them that if they aren’t going to be honest to you, then just stay out of your life. See what they say. ;)

Srry bout all the typos

sounds like good idea to spend time more honest friends. good luck :-)

Your friends aren’t being real friends to you. Revenge really isn’t the answer, but don’t worry because she will eventually get what’s coming to her later. You need friends that make you feel good about yourself, that make you happy, and that really and sincerely love you and care about you. Try to find some friends that have those qualities. I know how hard it can be, because I’m still in high school, and that’s like the toughest place to find new friends. Try getting involved in new things where you can meet new people. Let me know how it goes.