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what the crap is this girls problem, her and i met

in school, we talk and sit beside each other everytime we have class, she showed all the signs of liking me etc..laughing at all my jokes, i mean at the very least she liked me as a friend…anyway i get her number and give her a call the night i got her number, of course the anwser machine picks up, i was pretty annoyed so just hung up…next day i asked a few friends what i should do, they said call her again today earlier and leave a message if she dont pick up, so i did just that, called and left a message..now its saturday and if she doesnt call by today what does that mean? she dont even like me as a friend? i think thats pretty bs. like i said i have her in one of my classes so i will for sure bring this up…what should i say/do?

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

eh calm down lol!!!
do you know her address?
give her a knock

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

Anger management issues already? And a at such a young age too.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (14 minutes after post)

lol im not mad its just annoying ya know lol.. and im not that young..

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (15 minutes after post)

evansent2008 wrote:
eh calm down lol!!!
do you know her address?
give her a knock

well?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (29 minutes after post)

evansent2008 wrote:

evansent2008 wrote:
eh calm down lol!!!
do you know her address?
give her a knock

well?

i dont know where she lives lol

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Wannabe. offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (30 minutes after post)

Lol.
Calm down.
If you still see her at school then ask her why she didn’t pick up, or call you back. There’s no use in waiting around forever, just ask her. Obviously don’t be too blunt because she could be a bit overwhelmed.

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (32 minutes after post)

ok…then try the other option blank her
see if you get a response then

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (33 minutes after post)

blank her?

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Wannabe. offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (35 minutes after post)

Idk, ignoring her could send confused signals both ways. But it could work…
=S
Just confront her.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (36 minutes after post)

ya i honestly dont understand, when i got her number i asked what time do ya want me to give ya a call(she has a son so i asked to be polite), and she said anytime and smiled, then she dont return my calls lol.

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (51 minutes after post)

what time you calling her
she might be putting her son to bed

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

9pm first day, then 5pm the second lol..

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

right…how old is her son
has she just come out of a relationship
is it too soon to introduce you to her family

do you know anything about this girl?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

her son is 1, all i know is she is no longer with the dad, and ya its too soon to introduce me to her family, i just got her number, we havent talked on the phone yet. i was wanting just to be good friends at the least haha.

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

think you better not phone again
just ask her why she aint answering her fone calls when you see her at school :)

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

yeah i wasnt planning on it lol, just dont understand its weird lol. and ya i will ty

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

good on ya:)

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

Nobody, absolutely NOBODY, answers the phone all the time. She could be somewhere other than her house, don’t you think? And if that’s your attitude toward someone if they don’t hang around the phone all day waiting for you to call, it wouldn’t be a wonder if she didn’t like you anyway.

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mickeymous offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 hours, 56 minutes after post)

Give her some time and also how long have you known her might be going too fast ??

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mickeymous offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 hours, 57 minutes after post)

And if she has a I year old son you might want to think again

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (8 hours, 38 minutes after post)

Maybe she’s out of a town or something and not in a condition to answer you. Wait and see. There always can be something unexpected going on.

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peaches.sha offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

nobody cares about dis dumb website and yall need to stop written it cuz umma erase it *******

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