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I need help.

I have no one, and no where else to turn.

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white flower offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (0 minutes after post)

whats wrong?

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christine-4 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 minute after post)

everything. life. its falling apart, im falling apart.

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David E. Ramzy offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

What’s your problem

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

talk to me

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littlenick offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 265 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Well, what’s going on?

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christine-4 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (10 minutes after post)

I’m not sure that I want to be alive anymore. Please don’t tell me how ’stupid’ that is, I’m quite aware its not a good idea. but i just dont know what else i can do at this point.

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David E. Ramzy offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (13 minutes after post)

christine no specific info plz tell us what’s going on with you

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littlenick offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 265 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

live4what? wrote:
I’m in the same boat. My problem is that I don’t believe anyone has ever liked me. I don’t believe anyone really cares. My trust has been betrayed so many times I don’t even know how to make friends or be a friend. I hate being human.

So what is that you think you should do? You have to start liking yourself before anyone else likes you. YOu have to start caring for yourself before anyone else cares. Your own trust has be kept well in check before you can trust again. You have to be a friend to somebody else that you wish you had. And above all, you have to love yourself and accept yourself.

christine-4 wrote:
I’m not sure that I want to be alive anymore. Please don’t tell me how ’stupid’ that is, I’m quite aware its not a good idea. but i just dont know what else i can do at this point.

Why wouldn’t you want to be alive? Your life is just beginning. Your adventure in life is just beginning! I wont’t tell you how “stupid” it is but you have to find it in yourself to keep on going and trudging through this life. What if we all were to give up? Then what? Where would this world be? There would not be one!

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Whatever you feel or think, Don’t Worry . you are NOT alone.
I hope that helps because i know it helps me.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

live4what? wrote:
What if we all were to give up? Then what? Where would this world be? There would not be one! , Of course their would be a world. A perfect one. One without humans.

You need to start being more positive in your outlook of life!

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christine-4 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

I dont want to feel this way .. i want to be happy and have a good life and all of that but i just dont know how to do that. I feel like i’m going back in time.. instead of growing stronger and becoming a better person i am getting weaker and becoming less of a person.

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red330 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

The only way you can feel loved is if you love yourself.
having a positive outlook gives life a whole new meaing, one you probably have never seen yet, just try it

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christine-4 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (22 minutes after post)

and just when i thnik it cant get any worse. life kicks me when im down.
over. and over. and over.

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red330 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Christine I know how you feel, its not your fault that you feel that way but you have to help yourself and find things that you know will make you happy

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christine-4 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (23 minutes after post)

I had so many things that made me happy. and they were all taken away.

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red330 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (23 minutes after post)

there has to be something you like. now elaborate find something you like, a necklace a ring etc and stick to it. IT WILL HELP YOU

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red330 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (25 minutes after post)

okay don’t kick yourself down though. Everything gets worse when you feel pity for yourself. And i know for a FACT that your as good as a person as anyone

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red330 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (26 minutes after post)

christine are you still with us?

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christine-4 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (27 minutes after post)

i dont know what else to say.

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red330 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (32 minutes after post)

its okay i just want you to know that I know how you feel, I am there now as well, but right now I’m just trying to distract myself.
I also wanted to ask what is it thats bothering you. Is there something going on with your life we should now about to help you better?

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red330 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (37 minutes after post)

Please stay with me, I can help you and you can help me

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christine-4 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (38 minutes after post)

how about i help you?

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red330 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (39 minutes after post)

okay… my problem may not seem that big.. but it is to me
Also, please don’t judge me because we may have age differenced that interfere with our point of views
So, I’m 16

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christine-4 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (40 minutes after post)

no judgements here

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christine-4 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (46 minutes after post)

Still here red?

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red330 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (47 minutes after post)

Okay, I’m a junior and this year i switched to a new school(lets call it R) and left my old school (lets call it D). The reason I switched to R from D was because my old school , D, was Pissing me off (excuse my french).D is a Charter school (half Private and half public) and there very little money, therefore, its a small school with a lot problems. My friends weren’t pissing me off it was the actual school because of its unorganization but, I’ve had this problem of whether or not to switch since the beginning of 9th grade. So, I finally switched but, as expected I have no friends in the new school. ANd also keeo i mind that I’ve been with my friends since 6th grade…a pretty long time. so, school started a month ago and my mother gave me the chance to swtich back if i wanted to. BUt now i dont know what to do

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red330 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (50 minutes after post)

also, please know that I only have ’till Monday to decide

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red330 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (53 minutes after post)

Christine are you still there?

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christine-4 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (54 minutes after post)

i’m not really sure how to help. I mean both situations dont seem the greatest.
but where would you be happier? good school, no friends. not so good school, great friends?

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red330 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (59 minutes after post)

ugh i wish it were easier to decide. Its just tough thing to decide when you have two years on the line.
But i Greatly appreciate you helping me , your questions helped me realize what i have to focus on.

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red330 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

anything i can help you with now?
eve though i’m sixteen I can probably help you a lot
how old are you, i don’t want to be a stalker or too personal, but i can probably help

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

ummm sry to bother but are you still there? if not if you EVER need to talk even if we don’t know eachother have my e-mail
i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> (don’t forget the period)
thanks,
red

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red330 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

its red then a period and then 3308 at (@) yahoo dot com if you didnt get that

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red330 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

God Bless

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