Love help: Who believes in true love? - Help.com

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i believe in love, but it’s not always ‘true love’
and i think there is a soulmate for everyone, but we might not all find our soulmates..

What i believe in true love. You wont really know how it feels till you feel that way about some one.
I believe the world gives you from one to multiple soul mates, but it is up to you to find them, and hold on to them, if you choose to let go, or something happens it is up to you to find another, perhaps you wont find any more, but you can still find love.

If some thing is meant to be then it will come back. But you have to allow it in.

Sure count me in, I believe in true love. I believe in soul mates as well but I also believe that friends can be soul mates or “kindred spirits” that we are meant to know. I believe that whatever is meant to be, will be. So don’t sweat the small stuff ;)

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Thank you it is VERY NICE!!!

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happitoday is absolutely right…this was great :)
and yes i do believe in love but im not so sure about true love –although it is probably just because im not old enought to have found it yet

I believe in everlasting friendship, but not love. You gotta mark this first that I’m really cynical and sarcastic. Perhaps, there IS a true love, but as far as I’m concerned, true love doesn’t exist in the world anymore. I’ve been worn off by these crappy things going on nowadays about people dropping telephone numbers and all in the club, meeting with strangers just to have-maybe five minutes of-orgasm, and then simply ditch each other. I’m not saying I’m innocent and pure, holy ****, I’m not being sanctimonious, either. I’m just sick and tired of the fact that most people are beginning to take love as a joke, not seriously. Well, it’s kinda complicated and funny coz I, myself, is searching for a true love, not just for myself, but also for the others. I just wanna see those sort of scenes that might appear in the old movie like that one Audrey Hepburn starred in, again in the real life.

There is true love and soulmate for everyone, some found him/her already, others are still searching for. How do you know you found it? Because you can tell anything and everything to this person without holding back, even your deepest secrets, and in return you will get love, understanding, nurturing and such care you can always count on. Based on an unselfish friendship which will eventually grow into love in the deepest level with satisfying intimacy. When you give yourself fully and wholeheartedly to someone and you get reciprocated by the same intensity and satisfaction, you know you have it.

i take it a “true love” would NOT CHEAT on you? right????
I agree with u 2 anon and beat.
I thought I had true love with my ex, but he cheated and will always cheat on his gf / wife. This is not the 1st time, with me yes, but he has cheated on the others too..
I dont know if i believe in “love” anymore…

Happytoday, there is someone for you too, don’t give up. My first husband and I were very much in love, or I thought he was, yet he cheated on me not once. The amount of chances I gave him and the amount of time I let him come back to me is incredible, yet I didn’t lose hope not even when I finally left him without looking back. Then one day my now husband just walked into my life and it is now when I can tell I have it all.

i have tears in my eyes!! I’m SO SO happy for you!!!! I don’t think I love this man -, but its hard because we still live at my dads, we are NOT together, just live in the same house, until I can get back on my feet…
What did it for you, the last time? how long have you been married? Are you “IN LOVE”??

You see happitoday, there is hope. Of course it does not help that you are under the same roof with him. Just go out and meet other people. Do something that motivates you and have fun doing. Soon you will realize it won’t bother you anymore his presence. The last time: we both were disappointed and hurt by our significant other and we helped each other to go through what we needed to be done. We were there for each other and during this time we discovered we both wanted the same thing and found out how much we like each other. We were very good friends first that turned into loving each other. We dated for 3 years before we got married and we are married almost a year now. We are IN LOVE still. While my first marriage I was in love while he was in love with the word love and soon it turned sour. Big difference isn’t it.

Were u 2 married to other people and were helping each other out?
YES BIG Difference - people want and need to hear the words ” - LOVE -” i thought I ws IN LOVE but i guess same guys just have the kindness and can fake it all…

We both were married before but carried on the pain we both couldn’t let go. We were both emotionally abused by our ex-husband/wife. We both were in our deepest level of our lives when we walked into each other’s lives. Happitoday just think of the positive side of your story, you are richer in experience today and because of it, you will be stronger in your next relationship.

not trying to be mean, so u2 chated on yall spounse? Do you 2 trust ea other?

heya
yes true love really does exist, really. I fell deeply for this guy when i was in my sophomore year in high school,(im a freshman in college right now),and we went out for like 4 months or so. He broke up with me for some stupid reasons that dont even make sense.But anyways,after we broke up i realized i really was deeply in love with him and I cried so much for him, because after he graduated i didnt see him anymore.I met guys and dated but none were like him. And in may of this yr he wanted to talk to me about what had actually happened in our past,to beg for my forgiveness.we ended up dating again and recently i forgave him because i just couldnt hold that against him anymore.I fell in love all over again and I couldnt be happier having my true love again. That should answer ur question about letting true love go,and if its real,itll come back,just like in my case :) mine was a happy ending,but not really an ending cause we still have a whole lifetime to spend together and make up for the time that we didnt. :)

No, happitoday, we weren’t anymore with our ex’s when we got to know each other.

thanks beatr….
I’, happy for all that have found true love, but lately i no one turns my head! I thinks its me, because i still live here with my ste dad and ex. and with no job - yet, I KNOW that once I get a job and start wroking - it was othing for me to work 50-60hrs a week and a full time student, anyways I know that once i start working and can get my OWN place - whatever that may be, I’ll bloom like a flower….
Thanks

Beatr- you knew right away that this man was your love!

Z-Cor I thought the my ex was my true love, the way we met, everything- b-days, thought on life, goals, dreams, but some “man” just tell you what they think / know we females need to hear!
I hope that once i move out and get my **** together maybe Don - my ex will do the same - But I DO BELIEVE THAT WHAT IS MET TO BE WILL BE NO MATTER WHAT! but at the same time could i NEVER trust him again, I know me I have a hard time anyways with trust - (my mother left me when I was 13-14yr) so I know that no was will stay with me very long….
Thank you…..
I think I might go buy some NEW makeup, and get my hair done, and start the gym, because i feel so ugle and nasty, i need to up left my sprits and then when i go to a jon interview they will see the HAPPI ME! I am normally a VERY happy person, poeple love to hang out with me bc I’m a KID and just love to laught…..
THANKS

I think we have soulmates but we dont automatically fit. You have to work on a relationship. Thats true love.