friends help: my friend has a sitution and its where everywhere she goes a spider is always there and always neat her. - Help.com

There’s no sign, it’s just a coincidence. She probably sees spiders because she’s LOOKING for them. If she didn’t pay attention she wouldn’t see so many, and if everyone paid as much attention as she did, they would see just as many spiders.

As it happens, she will be looking for the spider wherever she goes, it has something to do with the priming aspect of the brain. If she went somewhere and there was no spider, she wouldn’t remember but any place where there is a spider she remembers.

Gathered from http://www.sayahda.com/cyc4.html

The Spider

Many stories exist about the weaver, Grandmother spider. She carried on her back the gift of fire in a basket that she wove and presented it to the people. In another story it is said that her web bound all things together and formed the foundation of earth..

These legends give the spider a link to the past and the future, birth and creation. When the spider crawls into our awareness it is asking us to rebuild the web of our life in accordance with the design the creator gave us.

Spiders differ from insects in having eight legs rather than six and in having the body divided into two parts rather than three. The number eight laid on its side is the symbol for infinity. The number two implies the union of two forces joined together. Together they equal ten. Drop the zero and you are back to the starting point of one. The hidden message of spider is unity. The study of numerology is beneficial for those who hold this medicine.

The construction of a web is linked to the geometry of creation. In the construction of an orb web the spider releases a sticky silken thread into the wind. If the breeze carries the thread to a spot where it sticks the first bridge is formed. Spider cautiously crosses the line reinforcing it with a second. This process continues until a frame is constructed in which the web can secure itself. Bridges serve as a link tying all things together and remind us of our interconnectedness to all life.

The spider shows us that the past, the present and the future are all interwoven. It awakens our intuitive creative senses and encourages us to design the fabric of our lives from our souls original intention. If you see a spider in its web, or creating a new one, pay attention. It symbolizes where you are in the weaving of your own destiny. A study of the medicine wheel and the four directions is helpful.

Because spiders are actually very delicate they embody the energy of gentleness. Spiders are not usually aggressive unless they are defending their lives. Moving forward in all situations with a gentle strength is a skill that often needs to be learned for those with this totem. In man, the bite of a poisonous spider symbolizes a death, rebirth process. Poison enters the nervous system and the body either transmutes it or falls victim to its venom and dies.

The spider signifies the tapestry of life. The web we weave is the reality we experience. Choosing the appropriate path is one of the lessons associated with this medicine.

Spiders are attracted to some people. No one knows the reason. It sounds like your friend is one of these people though. Some scientists have hyposthesized that it has to do with pheromones but thats never been conclusively proven. Unfortunately, many of these people end up getting bitten in their sleep by poisonous spiders such as black widows and recluses. Tell your friend to be very very careful.