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im having this problem with my boyfriend.

he can think of the most romantic things like watching movies at home with the lights off and lots of candles lit, but he wont do or say anything romantic. how can i get him to be romantic? or how do i let him know i want him to be more romantic without telling him?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

You’ve to tell him…

But, words are not always the best way to be romantic, in fact, I think that talking isn’t really necessary…

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CrimsonSaku offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

You try it? And when you do, make sure he gets the hint that you reaaaaaaaally like that kind of stuff.

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kmichelle offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

the next time he suggests doing something really romantic, get all excited, and make actual plans to do it. then he might take the hint. =)

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R.A.M offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (30 minutes after post)

Otherwise you can take the lead and hin that he too should play his part and reciprocate…

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CA | 1 year, 1 month ago (34 minutes after post)

why dont you just make it casual…you dont want him to feel akward so when things get quite nd your kissing just look at him and say something like “say something romantic” and if he does then just say reply like “i love it when you say romantic things like that”
ive done stuff like that before. while im kissing a guy we would take a break and i would say “do you like me?” or “say something sweet” it usually works.

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R.A.M offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (38 minutes after post)

Makes sense…
I guess add all the replies up and hopefully it should work..

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terrell_sho offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (7 months, 2 weeks after post)

You should be like baby we need to spice our relationship up then when he asks how then you start tellig him how you want him to be mor romantic. You have to teach them these things otherwise he wont know then yall both be sitting there looking at each other like whats next after your done kissing.Because then he might be like he has to go or something because thats how some guys are when they dont kno what else to do. So just talk to him about it.

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