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I’m shy and turn red(embarrassed) very easily.

I try to not be be shy, but everyone always comments on why I suddenly turn bright red and that just builds on my embarrassment and it just goes downhill fast.

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Hybrid Theory offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

lol. its an endearing quality. dont worry too much about it.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

I get red very easly too, but I call it my super power. Imbrace the redness, laugh when your embarresed its not as embarresing when you know you messed up but look like your ok with it. Lol.

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teachers_pet1979 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

lol. I used to know this guy that I was just totally gaga over. He blushed alot. Everytime he did, my heart would just melt. We’re still friends, but we live in different states now so I don’t get to see him blush anymore. :(

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

you’re a guy or a girl?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

well, some guys like that….

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teachers_pet1979 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

hehee. I know, my cousin is gay.

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spiratec9 online Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 1 month ago (57 minutes after post)

are you turning red now?

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spiratec9 online Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

spiratec9 wrote:
are you turning red now?

teachers_pet197 wrote:
lmao! that’s not nice.

since we can’t see you it dosn’t bother you.
Just do the same in public.
I was in store once with a Geiger counter. Looking for radioactive things.
I said to my mother do I look stupid with this thing?
and she said it doesn’t matter what you look like just do it anyway.
So I did and I had lots of fun.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

when you turn red, dont worry about it,
you could just be hot, the room could be hot? who knows.. it dont matter i am red when i talk to some nice girls and i just noticed none havnt disliked it!
some asked i said, “i’m having fun” and they just smiled :)
so just breath and talk and you will be okay!!

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 hours, 56 minutes after post)

Well you’ll save on blush lol, some are so pale, they look like the walking dead, even when embarassed. That’s a cute endearing quality to blush.Don’t let it bother you.

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Laina1312 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 hours, 46 minutes after post)

Hey, I’m one of those walking dead pale people and I resent that!!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 weeks, 3 days after post)

I’m glad I’m not the only one.
I’m soo shy and my face always turns super red, when I laugh, am embaressed, etc.
And when people bring it up how my face it red (which I already know, because my face is burning), it makes me get even more embaressed. Ugh.

It makes me feel like a freak, but after reading this descusion, I feel somewhat better.
I still get way embaressed.
=p

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (2 months, 4 weeks after post)

as you and me both having the same types of social pobia for me i use to focus on other when i become red so i think it works good so try this and it will help you

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (9 months, 1 week after post)

teachers_pet1979 wrote:
lol. I used to know this guy that I was just totally gaga over. He blushed alot. Everytime he did, my heart would just melt. We’re still friends, but we live in different states now so I don’t get to see him blush anymore. :(

AWW!! this is honestly one of the cutest things i’ve heard. and im a guy. nohomo. ima make a movie out of this quote. nohomo.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (11 months, 2 weeks after post)

aww haha thats my problem too, and im a girl
so i think its okay though. at least we have a little color.
just try to think of things as whatever, im the best lol
it kinda helps.

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joeldarke offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (11 months, 2 weeks after post)

Why is it that only shy people turn red? and why do some people turn pale whiye when embassassed?

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (11 months, 3 weeks after post)

im a guy and i turn red quite easily, but not because im embarresed, infact nothing really embarreses me but i still go red easily anyway dont know why.

but hey its not the worst thing in the world =]

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An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (1 year after post)

ugh. i wish i didnt. its kinda embarassing, and tbh. i accually though i was like one of the only ones. but reading the peoples comments help but like ‘just dont think about it’ doesnt really help me. because i do.
like sometimes i think why couldnt i be the outgoing one.
i mean sometimes i think what if i turn red like this when im older and have kids. that would be horrible. :S
but oh well. i hope i can get over it one day :/
-olivia. ps. sorry its so long.

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An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 1 day ago (1 year, 1 month after post)

argg, i go red too, over the most stupidest things, and when i do go red i panik and go even reder!
its soo annoying because everyone looks at me, aswell so that dont help either.
what should i do when i go red, to stop me paniking or going even reder??
Love Jessica x

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An Unknown Location | 23 hours, 56 minutes ago (1 year, 1 month after post)

man wen i turn red like in class wen teachers asks me a question i litarally turn fuken RED like a tomato LITERALY no lie

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