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I’m 3 months behind on my mortgage for an investment property that actually costs me more to own.

I live in my younger brothers basement and I sleep on the floor. I don’t own a car (I borrow). My job as a plumber generates no income at this time. I’m madly in love with my new girlfriend whom I can no longer afford to entertain. I had hoped to get married next year and soon after start a family. Now I cannot afford dinner. I can’t afford to get sick (no insurance). I need new glasses. I’m in great need of a dentist, but I’m afraid of dentists and I have no money and no dental coverage. My credit score is so low that I’m affraid to check it (lower than 500 most likely). I’m too depressed to focus on anything. This hurts so much and it’s like I can’t move. Please respond and thank you very much for reading. 35 Male Illinois

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The Clue offline Verified User (4 years) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
Minot, ND, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (51 minutes after post)

Either move into it or sell it, its no longer an investment property. Since your single you can work extra hours and days to get your debt under control. Its up to you now to straighten this out. Hope this helps :-)

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1 year, 1 month ago (2 hours, 5 minutes after post)

Give the investment property back to the bank–we just bailed those slimeballs out anyways so let them deal with it.

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redhotberr offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 hours, 26 minutes after post)

Well I would rent the home out for a significant low price to start. Most medical places will help even if you send $5.00 a month, so get yourself taking care of. Yourself is only what you choose to do with it. clean yourself up, go to church, find yourself first. If those around you leave they are not meant to be in your life in the first place. You are young enough to start with any job or means neccessary to get something going. In a tight economy there are still jobs out there that pay something, swallow your pride and start a new life.

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neku offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (16 hours, 56 minutes after post)

You can go to the local Goodwill center, they will help you find a job and/or train you. You can also try your luck at online charities like Modest Needs, people may send donations, if your requirement is genuine. From http://www.laodn.org/

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