Love help: My BF’s family is moving out of state, he says that he will come back for me but i don’t know if i should believe that. - Help.com



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My BF’s family is moving out of state, he says that he will come back for me but i don’t know if i should believe that.

He’s two years younger than me and we are in highschool. If we were old enough we’d get married, i just wonder if we are too young to know if we love eachother?

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1 year, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

oh yeah, he’s 16 and Im 18 by the way.

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redhotberr offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

Well at any age you are never old enough to know if you should get married or not or even in love or not. Truth is that is not the choice, it is if you will stand behind one another without a doubt through anything and everything including things that to a normal person you would walk out on. I got married pretty young in my twenties and I thougt I was ready truth is, you never are. It does get easier the more life experiences you have before you make the largest commitment in history. I am now friends with my ex of almost two decades he was my high school sweetheart and we both have moved on didn’t talk for quite sometime and Now I am married but if I were not, who knows we have both had grown up and done the things we needed to. Now it might have worked out better. Hope it works.

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chev.jame offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (28 minutes after post)

The odds of your “staying together” are about 1,000 to one–against. It’s just human nature to “adapt” to new situations–and people. Not saying it’s impossible . . . but YOU are the one most likely to find someone else because of the age difference. And, yes, I think you are both two young to make a lifetime commitment at this time. Enjoy life and be open to new possibilities!

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chev.jame offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (28 minutes after post)

Too young, not “two young”! ;-)

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lil_brat_tif offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 hours, 30 minutes after post)

…idk ive never been in a relationship

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