Love help: Should i move?

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Should i move?

I’ve been living at the same place for like, 7 years, and i haven’t gotten over my social anxiety. And almost everyone here knows me as “the quiet person”, i just got a chance to move to another place, and although i LOVE where i stay i right now, and the new place will be a much smaller place….i think i might get a fresh start, i dunno, any advice?What would you do?

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southern_comfort 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

Nahhh. Stay in bed like me!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

mhmm bed… but i don’t hav social anxiety, i jus don’t like ppl… havin a fresh start will kinda ease tension, put yourself out there you’ll never kno until you try… mayb change job descriptions, i met sum of my bestest friends in the world at work…

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

It’s harder to find your place in a smaller society. In small societies, like a small town, everybody already knows everybody and the newcomers can turn out as outsiders. Especially if they have communication difficulties (like I do). I’m scared of moving to a small town. I find the anonymity of big places comforting. Maybe it will be so for you too.

I agree with BadInfluence, try changing your job first and see if it works. By changing the city, you’d have to change the job too anyway, so you’re not losing anything.

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southern_comfort 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (23 minutes after post)

*waves Hi to Lucy from across the room*

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (56 minutes after post)

“Should I stay or should I go?”

What do you really feel is best for you? I think you would like to move.
Either way, you’ll end up ok.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 hours, 11 minutes after post)

i think that you should definately consider moving…

how far away is it? if its really far then maybe its not such a good idea..

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 hours, 43 minutes after post)

Moving could help, IF you’re dedicated to also changing your behavior pattern.

As you said, it’s your behavior that really dictates your social life. You just have to grit your teeth and do it. Otherwise, it’s going to be the same in the new place as it is now.

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