Love help: Am I just over-reacting and being impatient or could the nervousness be caused by diabetis ? - Help.com

It could be very well possible that he is all lies.

Alright please, this might sound bad, but it is so, so, so true:
Online relationship, don’t hold up in real life.
Online love relationships, have absolutely nothing to do, with real love.

You are just feeling exited, and just for the record; 1. how many relationships over 3 months have you been in so far, and what was your longest? 2. What is your gender?
3. What is your age?

lucif wrote:
Alright please, this might sound bad, but it is so, so, so true:
Online relationship, don’t hold up in real life.
Online love relationships, have absolutely nothing to do, with real love.

You are just feeling exited, and just for the record; 1. how many relationships over 3 months have you been in so far, and what was your longest? 2. What is your gender?
3. What is your age?

I havent been in any romantic relationship in many years, im in my 40’s. i was married for 7 .im a woman

Okay, well in that case. Just assume that when you meet him, you are only just beginning to meet him. You can still be anyone you want with him. And think, perhaps he is a little scared of it too.
Just enjoy life, there isn’t much else to it. ;)

An online relationship can be good or bad. Like other relationship it depends on any truths or lies you have made to each other.
The first real face to face meating with each other is going to be worrying for both of you. You have only what you have told each other to go on.
I would at this stage take it that nerves on his part, might be a big factor in his behaviour.
I can only say that you will have to have patience and hope that nerves on both sides dont spoil the meeting.
Once you have both actualy met, you will know then if it was a good idea or not to meat each other.
I hope it turns out well for both of you.

Thanks thep, that means a lot :) but now im worried about the nervousness ruining things, not sure what that means exactly.

The nervousness ruining things, mening that one or both of you dont manage to turn up.
You said not to hold anything back. I am taking it that is what is meant. As long as you both know this is the right time to meet each other, then the nervers will soon go and you wont be able to shut each other up for a while.
This is my bet on what will realy happen. If you look forward to it with an open mind it will go great.

As you can see my spelling is getting bad, it is time for me to go. You will both have a great time, believing is half the battle, the realitty is what makes it exciting. Good night friend.

:D, yes! If our first encounter is anything like on IM there will be no problem, we both have SO much to say we never shut up.lol and we are both normally quiet people otherwise. Thanks again Thep, very much and g’night my friend

Hey! I’m late, sorry! Don’t let your worries get the best of you my dear. What’s meant to be will be. You know that :D

miss_enigma wrote:
Hey! I’m late, sorry! Don’t let your worries get the best of you my dear. What’s meant to be will be. You know that :D

Just you showing up put a smile on my face, thanks hun, how are you BTW?

Thanks for the invite. YOu know sometimes online relationships can work out well. It is different when you chat online from when you actually meet and start dating. Even then you really cannot tell if the person you liked is the same as he tells you. Many times you would know that person when you actually live with him. At this point I would say go for it and don’t be nervous. You said he is moving so he is busy. He will call you or send you an email when he is settled. I am assuming he is the same age or older than you so if he said he can’t wait to see you, he will make an effort to see you.

Thanks beatrice, that helps. HOw are you? and things?

I feel better too, things are working out again. Thank you for being there for me. I missed your words.

MamaBear {Felicity} wrote:

miss_enigma wrote:
Hey! I’m late, sorry! Don’t let your worries get the best of you my dear. What’s meant to be will be. You know that :D

Just you showing up put a smile on my face, thanks hun, how are you BTW?

Better late than never! lol Not too shabby thanks. How are you doin? Still feelin nervous?

beatricegalant wrote:
I feel better too, things are working out again. Thank you for being there for me. I missed your words.

good!you ARE welcome :)

miss_enigma wrote:

MamaBear {Felicity} wrote:

miss_enigma wrote:
Hey! I’m late, sorry! Don’t let your worries get the best of you my dear. What’s meant to be will be. You know that :D

Just you showing up put a smile on my face, thanks hun, how are you BTW?

Better late than never! lol Not too shabby thanks. How are you doin? Still feeling nervous?

Im a little better. thought ide have to go to the ER but now im better.and 2 morrow Im getting the something to calm my nerves. Argh, i hate meds.lol I never see you on IM anymore, miss you :/

I’ll make a point of getting on there so we can chat soon! I’m glad you are doing better, don’t forget to breathe my dear. Hugs to you, take it easy my friend, no doubt all this excitement takes a toll on the nerves.

:D

Hello HUGS to you! SOrry for getting at this so late…

Before I answer, has this guy called you? Has he let you know what he’s been up to and if he’s okay?

I appologize for getting to you so late but perhaps that’s for the best, I’ve just had negative experience both personally and through family with online dating,so I’ll leave it at that. The best of luck to you!