life help: ive decided to treat my life with total recklessness.im gonna - Help.com

Would that make you happy or would you being doing it only to punish people around you?

Whats that mean?
Does that mean it would make you happy?

So whats up?
Why do you want to become a jerk?

Oh, Jemma, please don’t do that. It will not make you happy, just numb.

Why advertise your desires, Are we to approve? No, so why not get some reason to kick around for a bit?What would give you this attitude? What is at the heart of your negativity? Can’t we help you make better choices?

Jemma is going through a lot and has a negative home situation, which is where she should feel safest. She really needs people to understand her more and take an interest in her life as opposed to denying her.

I am willing to help her. but she has to accept the offer. A unhappy childhood is for sure rough. I know this only too well. What can I help you with?

is this a male or female?

Female.

Is there no other family member that can take her from this bad enviorment?

You’ll have to ask her, I think that is a negatory though.

Ive been doing the same! Hey, i dont wanna see u in the death valley with me. SO, stop doing it! :P

I done that from 17-21 almost 22 and I paid for it last year with a stroke at 24 years old. Don’t do it your body is delicate and you need to look after it. Try to work round your problems in another more constructive way.

*HUGS* I thought you could use one.

((((((HUGS))))) Also…. Wish I could help you in someway :(

jemmabarnett wrote:
awwwwwwwww… you re the best

So I’ve been told. :D

I hope you feel better soon. I don’t think damaging your body is the answer, but there is nothing I can say to stop you, is there? Please don’t do it. There are people here who will help you find a way to help yourself, me included.

I will help you with anything if I can :)

That is tantamount to damaging it. Your body is a temple and you should try to keep it clean and safe. I beg you to reconsider.

Why do you want to do that? You only have one body,You’ll need to take better care of it… You don’t want to end up in a hospital do you?

I dont know, I just use it in context. dictionary.com says it means equivalent, as in value, force, effect, or signification:

“tantamount” means “equivalent”

You dont have to know if you like or dislike drugs. If you feel you must take them to learn that, then it is what you must do but I strongly, strongly advise against it.

Why play with fire. They are called drugs for a reason.. You can’t and shouldn’t miss something you’ve never done.. Wise to avoid this temptation…

It is wiser to avoid than try and have to quit.

Oh I left this post had too work, but just for the record I was never addicted to drugs or smoking or anything but occasional use of all 3 and constant disregard left me very ill indeed, about a year after I gave up the crazy lifestyle it all caught up with me.
And smoking makes you smell reaaaal bad and makes your teeth yellow and is probably the most addictive drug of, take up boxercise or something instead.