girl help: i have a girl at my church whom i really really carea about.shes a senior and im a junior. - Help.com

i have a girl at my church whom i really really carea about.shes a senior and im a junior.

she says she wont date me for that reason. shes come from a broken family, a broken past.. ppl at church dont like her for tha reason. i txt her regularly. i jsut dont know how to let her know how much i care.

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seas light offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 105 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Just continue to be kind supportive and charming. Give her time. She may come around and see how much you really care :)

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linuxya offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
CA | 3 months ago (23 minutes after post)

Dude, be careful. You may be setting yourself up as a “rescuer”. This means you may feel important and passionate because you are rescuing someone. That’s not love. That’s you filling some emotional need of your own. If you want a real relationship, find someone who is compatible with you, someone who shares your interests, thinks you are awesome, and loves spending time with you even if it’s just sitting outside and talking.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (6 hours, 29 minutes after post)

ahh sorry linuxya i did forget to mention that it she isnt just a random girl or a girl im just attracted to. she and i share many interests and are friends. she has made it clear she likes me, but she just doesnt want to date becuse of the age thing (which to be honest i think theres more to that than what she says.. im trying to see if anyone can interperet that line in a diffrent way then i have, for instance a nice way to say “lets just be friends” =(.. or “im not emotionaly ready for anything at this time” etc.)

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linuxya offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
CA | 3 months ago (17 hours, 11 minutes after post)

I can’t understand why anyone wants to waste his time convincing a girl to go out with him. You’ll spend the rest of your life trying to convince her you’re (still) awesome. Why start down that road now? Find a girl who thinks you’re cool already and wants to spend time with you now. Find a girl who likes you for who you are and doesn’t need any convincing.

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seah1 offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (20 hours, 28 minutes after post)

In love, age doesn’t matter but you really have to be very sure. Pray to God for revelation and guidance.

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