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helpful fluctuations come and go…

sometimes its lame

sometimes its quite inspiring.

one hour on a monday morning is not a good slice of what this site is all about.

Mykln wrote:
lol, im still copping it from other women on this site now. Read my shouts. Im so over it

Your not copping it, I am actually trying to figure you out, I mean there is always a reason for something and I want to know what your reason is to maybe help in some sense.

So far I have figured that you are against women, you think they are out to get you because they are jelouse of you in some way.. Where does that come from?
Maybe finding out the route of that would help you?

Normally this site is for people who have problems, cant afford money to get real help, or just dont want to go to a psychiatrist or something like this. Who are afraid to do so.
I know what you mean, some people really post **** in here but you cant change that, you will find this in any other help site which may exists too.
Some people just want to rant (which isnt that bad sometimes) and b*tch around, your right.
The real ‘problems’ come at other times. Mostly. There are really much people who need help and appreciate it if other users help.

Yeah but how should you lock them? Ask nicely: please dont talk sh*t here?
I know that it your upset about this, I’m too, often, but well. We can just try to ignore the silly ones and try to help as good as we can the people who need it.

I dont think so. And we shouldnt judge other people, and Mykln, you may just not response to this users you dislike.

Dr Awesome McCool wrote:
no we shouldn’t need to, the people who are responsible know who they are. maybe they will look to improve if they are confronted with the truth

what is truth?

isn’t that subjective?

isn’t that why we collect advice from others like on… help.com
to formulate new truths for ourselves? when the ego clashes with your post - then you have learned that -that is not true for you. it is healing and learning regardless i would think. ignore the lamos… its not like you have to give credit to everyone with a computer and can slightly type! this is just a place where ppl can gather - whether their IQs are struggling or not.

make love love love!!! not war!!

This too shall pass…

Perhaps the person who also did it feels the same way? They wanted to get it out? Who knows?! I don’t agree with it regardless, I think there is far too much cliquey-ness and nastiness on here at times but with the human factor it is kinda to be expected. Unfortunately we can only control ourselves and govern ourselves accordingly. We all make mistakes. To understand is to forgive, that’s why it’s never a bad idea to take a walk in someone else’s shoes from time to time. I take it with a grain of salt.

Side note, I think that is the most cliche post I have ever written..lmao! How many are in there? First correct person gets to throw a tomato at me hehehe ;)

Well, I think you are right miss_enigma but sometimes, I just cant get myself from thinking: was that really necessary?

Maybe its unfair but well, I never say it so I think its okay.

maybe it’s just to get attention? ahh… don’t shoot!

…I think your quite right robots.

lifeless wrote:
Well, I think you are right miss_enigma but sometimes, I just cant get myself from thinking: was that really necessary?

Maybe its unfair but well, I never say it so I think its okay.

I think the same thing but we all evolve differently, ya know? Some people just don’t know or don’t think before they post. It’s a learning experience and a little understanding goes a long way. By all means though, speak up if you disagree with someone’s post or behaviour, it’s about being respectful and calm while you do it that matters. Ahh but we all lose our tempers from time to time. Sh!t happens, is my motto.

Perfectly said, miss_enigma. Really I can understand you completely and yeah, like I said before we shouldn’t judge other persons, we dont know them.

Mykln wrote:
I dont mind people disputing my comments if they disagree or what ever.But I dont see the need for unprovoked personal attacks.

That’s where the mods come in my dear ;) Flag it right away, no one deserves to be verbally abused, especially here. Don’t take crap from anyone. Keep a cool head and don’t allow yourself to be baited and dragged down in the muck. Like I say, we can only control ourselves and our reactions. Sorry you had to go through that.

Thanks Lifeless, I agree. :)

lifeless wrote:
Perfectly said, miss_enigma. Really I can understand you completely and yeah, like I said before we shouldn’t judge other persons, we dont know them.

Thanks right back to you, you can express what I think, miss_enigma

You have to admit there are so many awesome people on this site, kind of makes up for any hooligans lol. Besides, even trolls are kinda cute in their own way - sometimes.

Keep smilin guys, don’t let spooky people get you down. ;)

Dr.Awesome, *hugs*.

How dooooo they do that? Must be “troll magic”. ;)

Well, I’m out..peace!

Yeah, there are really amazing people here, this is why I love this site even if I know this site just for 2 days.

Bye miss_enigma

robots wrote:
make love love love!!! not war!!

or do both, get married. lol jk

I agree with you Doc.

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so what does this post fall under?

- Fire

((((HUGS)))) It would be nice if people’s motives for coming here were solely for helping others as the name here suggests, unfortunately, that isn’t always the case.I agree with MYKIN,it would be a plus if you could block unwelcomed comments.Until then, all we can do is help others and hope all the rest will do the same :)