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Is this weird?

When I look at his picture my stomach lurches and I feel like I’m gonna ligit vomit, yet at the same time my heart flutters and I get dizzy. My heart yearns to hear his laughter expressed in the picture, to be there with him. It’s very painful and stressful, and yet I continuously go back and look at the pic every 3 minutes. I can’t get enough of it, though it’s making me sick. WTF is this? Isn’t this a bit extreme? Should I be worried? What does it mean?

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

this is extreme!!!
who are you obsessed with??

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

One of my bffs…

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

Plus I can’t breathe and get a huge lump in my throat…

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

you need to calm down.
perhaps you sense he is your soul mate?
this can generate strong solar plexis activity.

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

eh you better chill lv,your gona make yourself ill
sounds like your half way there already

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

know that if this is your soul mate it will work out as you wish it would.

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1 year, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

But we’re only 17!

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

age dosn’t matter.

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

bfs?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (13 minutes after post)

Best friends since about July. Him and I got really close. We do a lot together…

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (25 minutes after post)

i had this once, everytime i thought of them or saw a picture or somebody mentioned them i would go really sick yet get butterflies aswell.

The scary bit is that its a guy! i never considered myself to be gay, this is the first and only time its happend…

it still goes on but not as extream but i’ve come to realise there are weird coincidences between us, like my birthday is the opposite day of the year of his…

i dunno what to do so i cant really give advice… sorry :(

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Kanabi offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (57 minutes after post)

thats not weird…thats called a crush dear.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

Kanabi wrote:
thats not weird…thats called a crush dear.

dam that aint good! thats actually scarey tbh :(

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Kanabi offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

tbh? huh?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

to be honest… lol

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Kanabi offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

oh. Sorry I’m kinda slow with that stuff. Why is it scary?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 36 minutes after post)

cus its a guy, and i’m a guy!!!!!!

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1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 55 minutes after post)

I think she was talking about me.

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Kanabi offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 day after post)

Anonymous wrote:
cus its a guy, and i’m a guy!!!!!!

You might just be Bi….theres nothing wrong with that. I dated a Bi guy…and I’m a girl. I also have Bi friends. I really doesnt matter.

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