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This boy, he wanted a “pic” from me, if you know what I mean.

I said no to him, and he hasn’t talked to me since. I really like him though, and I miss him a lot :( What do I do?

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jcd offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Let him go. He sounds like a jerk.

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Left offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Give him a lovely, smiling head shot and nothing more. If he accepts it gratiously give him another chance. If he sneers anything at you. Forget about him. Treat yourself as you expect others to treat you. Precious.

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Narcissus offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (11 minutes after post)

dont give it to him, he probabaly will show his friends and if you starting hating him the pic will go everywhere seen it happen dont give him a pic

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headframe offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (17 minutes after post)

I wouldn’t bother with giving pictures out like that, especially don’t bother with those people who only want that and nothing else.

When I was in High School, people used to send out pics and vids like that all the time. And it always got out and it was always the thing that people remembered that person by….

As Smoogie said, give a nice photo of yourself and see what the reaction is.

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Whatsername17 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Get rid of him. My ex was the same, you’re better off without him!

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hairyhead offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (21 minutes after post)

taking pics like that of yourself will just haunt you in the future

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Fuzzy Pepper offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 66 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (4 hours, 54 minutes after post)

It is not worth it to take a picture of yourself that will possibly be around much longer than you wish it to be….you never know when “dirt” comes up on someone….

Say YOU want to run for political office; YOU want to be a high official; YOU want to be in a pageant or in anything where “morals” are considered valuable….

If that is ever the case, the “dirt” will come out.

A lifetime is a long time to live down something that could be shameful in the long run.

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