Love help: ex-girlfriend help - Help.com

Enjoy life.
There will be hundreds of problems ahead. Don’t be afraid of them. In relations, think of yourself. Seriously. If people think you are a jerk. So be it. At least you’ll be a happy jerk. And most real jerk can’t say that. Take your time. play it cool. All will be okay.

You just have to tell her be honest and tell her you don’t want her to wait.
Do you think she’ll have a really hard time getting over you?
How long have you been together?

we where together for 2 years,
shes taking the breakup pretty badly,
even though i dont love her anymore i still think she is a good person,
i didnt want it to end like this

lay off the girls for a bit man

stuck in mud wrote:
lay off the girls for a bit man

its not like im out looking for girls, i just cant get the girl i work with off my mind, i know its wrong to perssue her because she has a boyfriend but i havent been this attracted to a girl in a long time

it’s not wrong to pursue her because she has a bf. girls are frequently pursued with boyfriends… just don’t get your *** kicked ;)

stuck in mud wrote:
it’s not wrong to pursue her because she has a bf. girls are frequently pursued with boyfriends… just don’t get your *** kicked ;)

im ot trying to sound like an internet hardman but i dont usualy lose fights, thats a thought that has also been in my mind, if he finds out and confronts me what can i do?
i wouldnt let anyone just go ahead and hit me, but i cant kick is *** after sleeping with his girlfriend

Well, she slept with you for a reason. She isn’t satisfied in her relationship. Stick it out for a while, eventually she will come to you.

Of course the other possibility is that she is a conniving *****, and is trying to use you in some way. Use caution

stuck in mud wrote:
Well, she slept with you for a reason. She isn’t satisfied in her relationship. Stick it out for a while, eventually she will come to you.

thanks, ive seen her since and she asked me to go out on friday again hopefuly things will be a bit clearer when i see her again,

Well sooner or later your ex will realize that the whole “waiting game” doesn’t work out. It will just take time for her. As long as you are sturn and do not send any mixed signals about getting back together then she will understand in time and stop bothering you.

As for the one with the boyfriend, you already know that it is a bad idea based on the fact that she is doing this already. Whose to say that she wouldn’t do it again even if she was with you? To get her out of your mind, it just takes time again, sorry. There really isn’t anything easy about it. You’re going to think about her because she may have been gorgeous and fun, but in time you’ll stop being obsessed with her. I was interested in a few prospects and the fact is that while it was a quick fun thing, it didn’t have potential no matter how much I wanted it to. So I just moved on, no need to wait around, there are plenty of other people around!