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Im a freshman in college.

Despite having already made a decision on where to go for my education i still feel a little unfulfilled. I currently attend a large school by the name of Rutgers with “diversity” and, ill admit it a pretty happening social scene. But the problem is, that just not me. I recently went to go visit a friend and i really really liked her school (The College of New Jersey), almost to the point where i asked myself “do i see myself better off here?” I got accepted to both but i almost really do feel that im better accustomed to the small close knit college than this enormous school im in right now. I can decide whether i this is true or that i just had a good night at TCNJ. Truly the facilities are better and the classes are more personal (perhaps harder) but i feel they is more to do at Rutgers and more opportunities. Guidance? Response?

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Regulus9 offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

oh boy, i was gonna go to rutgers, but then i chose pitt. I’m actually from bernards, so yeah. but it’s really up to you, try staying with it for a bit longer, it’s only been a month. spend a little more time with your friend down there too, and then make a decision around when the time to actually apply for a transfer comoes around make your decision. simple. and think about other schools if they’re in your league too, nj seems like a pretty small place once you leave. (although I think i’m gonna transfer soon too, so I have no right to talk).

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