girl help: I met a girl through online site.

Bonito

I met a girl through online site.

She was so aggressive.
I agreed to get along with her. Started co-habitation. It was huge jump.
I didn’t like her emotional way to have made me feel guilty.
I’m fed up. I’m gonna ending years of this relationship.
It’s just not that easy for me to just move out, because i’m hoping that it will be smoother.
If we talk, she always win. I’m not gonna do anything violent.
So, should I just move out with leaving a letter? What do you think?

She finally got a nice public job with nice benefits. On the other hand, I’m unemployed.
She nitpicked every single things she doesn’t like about my job.
It was nice routine-delivery job with a nice advancement to a nice career.
But she interupted my job by phone calls and criticizing my company, jobs etc.
As I don’t have a job, recruiting everyday, and not having a temp job once last 50 days.
I clean dishes and rooms. I’m a male homemaker. Well, I’m not happy.

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headframe 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

I say try and talk to her.

If that fails. Bail

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AQ | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

crash bro

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Bonito 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Ok. I’ll try the last one tonight. If she doesn’t change a bit, I’ll be on road tomorrow.

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beatricegalant 27 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

To me it seems like the problem is not with her but with you. If you didn’t like her behaviour to begin with, why did you agree to co-habit? If you’d stayed with her, why didn’t you make it more clear to her that her agressiveness destroys your relationship? Is she aware of your feelings at all? On the other hand, she should be a little more supportive and understanding. Barking at someone all the time who has no job won’t help either. Try to talk and reason with her. Give her a chance to show she wants you and not as a doormat. See what happens.

littlenick 142 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

Sounds like she just wanted a boy toy! Is that what you are to her?

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beatricegalant 27 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

Well said littlenick, indeed.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

ahahaha!! well that is really hilarious, if u didn’t like her then why did u move in with her? because she was aggressive? grow a pair!!

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Bonito 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Yeah, I was not that clear about my feeling to her agressiveness. It was a surprise.
I loved her. I was blinded. Sadly, I gotta admit that, a boy toy. Sigh,,,

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beatricegalant 27 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

Tell her how disappointed you feel. Don’t feel intimidated by her bullying. What do you get to lose? If she really cares about you, she will listen and change. If not, you learned your lesson and next time you won’t become anyone’s toy boy.

Bonito 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

Thank you all. Your honest replies reached me good.

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littlenick 142 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

I have one more thing to say: Online dating or meeting someone through online dating is the stupidest thing in this world. Good luck to you! Don’t do it again!

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (18 hours, 1 minute after post)

Just cut all contacts wid her. No contacts at all. She is not for u. Bail out at the earliest. Show her that she does not deserve u. I know its tough. I have been through this……but dont follow me and waste more time, more tears.

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