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ok so its about a guy…

There is this guy named John. He is my best friends cousin. now my best friend lives across the road from me, is the same age, in the same grade, we see eachother everyday,ect. I have known her since i was 5. So i have known John since i was like 7 or 8. i have always liked him. by the way i am 14 and he is 19. but anyway, i have always liked him. but about a year ago i have realized that i love him. he lives down my road, he in college but i see him every weekend. and friday. the feelings that i have for him are strong. but im trying to get him to talk to me. he jokes around with his friends and calls me his stalker. he doesnt seem to have a problem with me.i want to be able to talk to him tho and build a friendship with him and see if it will go from there. ibut i dont know how. i added him on myspace and i have his cellphone number. the only way i can get him to email me is if i ask him about a problem im having with computers becuase he is going to college for computers so he will email me back with advice. i have mailed him notes before and people have talked to him about me before so he knows how i feel. but how can i make that friendship with him and make him talk to me? dont say i dont konw what love is and dont say that he is too old for me.
im kinda comfterable around him.. he doesnt hate me. he does know i love him. idk what to do. i have his cellphone number and his home number. please help.
michaela.

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KNielsen13 offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

first off you need to back off this guy a little. Guys like space and a challenge, and you seem like you are too available for him. You need to ignore him more. Also the age difference between you two is a bit awkward because he is technically an adult and you’re in your early teens. You could love him, being young does not mean you do not know what love is.

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Regulus9 offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

uh, yeah, not to sound mean or break your hopes, but you’re way too young for him at this age… 5 years during your teens i a long time. it’s an acceptable distance later, like late 20’s early 30’s maybe, but still, I think the age gap is just way too much.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

honey he doesnt want 2go 2 jail he telling you that he likes u as a friend but doesnt want u as a girl friend find some one your own age before u start a problem

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Stiffmaester offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (16 hours, 5 minutes after post)

If someone does not love u back the same way, forget abt him. Dont waste ur time lady, it happens. Find someone else. It only pains to pursue someone who does not feel for u. Yes it pains and u cry. Take my advice and move on plz.

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