Feel help: does it make you any less of a man if you don’t have a girlfriend? - Help.com

No. Just follow your heart. If you’re content on your own then it’s no big deal.

Heck no! You don’t need a woman, or a man for that matter, to make you feel good about yourself.

Hahaha! You’ve got to be kidding me! You’re fine if you don’t have a girlfriend. You still have the same amount of testosterone, trust me, and nothing’s wrong with being without a relationship for a short time.

No it doesnt I didnt get my girl friend till I was 17 dont worry about it dude You dont wanna be with a girl cause its “the cool thing to do” If You are gonna have a girl friend have it be for a reason cause you acctully like the other person

nope of course it doesnt make u less of a man. u dont have to go out with a million girls, people who do that have something to prove or have issues being lonely. im chronically single too so if it does make u less of a man then i too am a feminine man haha

In a way I think it does. I mean if you can’t get a girl, what’s the use of being a man? Sure you can drink beer, eat fried chicken, drive a pickup, get fat and watch nascar but that don’t make you a man.

I think its more of a matter of how you feel about yourself.

Anonymous wrote:
In a way I think it does. I mean if you can’t get a girl, what’s the use of being a man? Sure you can drink beer, eat fried chicken, drive a pickup, get fat and watch nascar but that don’t make you a man.

OH COME ON! It’s not like he’ll be alone forever! I mean, he’s only 17!

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Anonymous wrote:
In a way I think it does. I mean if you can’t get a girl, what’s the use of being a man? Sure you can drink beer, eat fried chicken, drive a pickup, get fat and watch nascar but that don’t make you a man.

OH COME ON! It’s not like he’ll be alone forever! I mean, he’s only 17!

ahaha so true, hes gotta long road to live still

Anonymous wrote:
In a way I think it does. I mean if you can’t get a girl, what’s the use of being a man? Sure you can drink beer, eat fried chicken, drive a pickup, get fat and watch nascar but that don’t make you a man.

Anon, now would be an excellant time to be quiet or to be supportive. He WILL get a girl. A wonderful woman who brings out the best in him.

I am not so sure about this whole thing. I have known guys that were manly then they met some chick and poof! there goes the manhood!

They are often left as sad shells of the men they once were…

i think i know what you mean… a few years ago this girl left me after 2 years, and i feel like i havent been as confident since then. btw i’m 25 not 17

dude seriously Your seventeen you have your whole life to find a girl just have fun and dont worry about it she’ll come dont force it cause You want someone who makes you happy thats what its all about just being happy

maybe you should hit up a strip club or hire an escort to blow you or something. Man up your life a bit if its getting you down. Once you got your confidence back try to meet a girl.

Being alone affects people differently. Some enjoy it some don’t.

of course it doesn’t

You have been single for a long time. Women seem to get upset if they are single for even a few months. Just take a look around, I am sure you will find somebody. Girls are probably more desperate then you think.

I used to work as a bouncer for awhile when I was younger. Man, you wouldn’t believe the guys that some girls end up going home with… its almost tragic.

Go Clubbin

Some people prefer to be single. There’s nothing wrong with that either. r u looking for a relationship?